goddess23 Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 hi all. okay so i could use some advice. well...theres this guy who i have been friends with for about a year. we are VERY CLOSE i mean we were like best friends almost but there was ALOT of flirting and to be honest a lot was from him. he is super caring and loving and i really like him but i was honeslty confused about how i felt about him and if i would want to be with him in another way. well...the other day he was at my house and he started to touch me there through my jeans and i felt awkward but i didnt stop it and he eventually put his hand down my pants. we kissed for about a half a minute but that was it (horrible kiss btw lol). i mean afterwards i felt completely weirded out. i think he did too. that night online he msged me saying he wants to go back to just being friends and what not. and i totally agreed and said i want that too which i do. but now its like the dynamic of our friendship has changed and it is a bit awkward still. i mean we were very flirtatious and now we can barely look eachother in the eye for too long. what should i do? i told him that i really want him as my friend but its just changed. do you think that it ruined the friendship? did he only want "that" from the friendship (now that hes being a little cold)? or is it just too early (this happened 2 days ago). any advice would be helpful, any opinions. thanks alot. Link to comment
Dregnought Posted November 19, 2005 Share Posted November 19, 2005 do you think that it ruined the friendship? For a little while, it depends on how the next so often works out.is it just too early (this happened 2 days ago) Thats proberly why i say wait it out for 5 days. you may start talking, but i wouldnt say be as close. stil, if nothing, then u 2 gotta talk this over. Link to comment
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