My Guy Friend Has Completely Abandoned Me.

[havealittlefaithinme6]

I'll try and make a long a story short, I became really close friends awith this guy and he confessed his feelings and tha he saw me as more than a friend. I said I saw him as a friend, and everything was okay, friends again. For a while he still showed that he liked me, but I didn't lead him on or anything.

 

I get a phone call last week and he wants advice on this girl he likes...I feel flattered and all, but at the same time, I'm like crushed. So I tried to fake being happy for him and I was like, "Yeah yeah ask her out!" But I really wasn't. For the past 4 days, he hasn't said one word to me...I don't even get a, "Hi!" when I wave. Instead he runs off and flirts with that girl.

 

I have no problem with him going out with her, but I'm sure I'll get over it. The thing is I hate that he completely just doesn't talk to me anymore, I don't even get a wave. He just completely ignores me. As for now, I'm gonna act like I never noticed this if he does talk to me...and I keep telling myself he is not a true friend if he's doing this to you.

 

Input? Advice? please.

 

THANK YOU.

[crookster_man]

You were happy with the "situation" until he changed it now your true feelnigs come out and your are pissed you missed your chance? Hmmm well you can eithr pretend to ignore your feelings and lose a friend and potentially more. Or you can swallow your pride and have a chat with him. Tell him how you really feel

[Alabama]

If you still feel like you have a chance and he still has any feelings for you, then tell him. It's the best thing you can do at this point. Good luck.

[DN]

If you just want him as a friend understand that if he is pursuing the other girl then he may not want her to think he is either with you or is interested in you.

 

If you want him - you had better move fast.

[Shadows Light]

Take it from someone who has been in your shoes... and lost him.

 

RUN.. GO.. and TALK to him. You want him... go track him down, tackle him.. and tell him how you feel. As quickly as your legs will carry you to his side.