confused9 Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 hi guys just want a little advice if you have time. i was visiting friends 4 hours away for the weekend and i met a really awesome guy....and i think i really like him. he's really sweet and shy and good looking, we stayed up all night chatting and made out a little bit... but on sunday when i left my friends place. i just left it at that. i didn't ask for his info or anything, b/c i thought well, it's hopeless. i just got out of a relationship a few months ago as did he, and his last one was long distance. but i was talking to my friends about him and they told me that he really lieked me, and i really liked him too. they said he asked for my email address on tuesday, so i told her to go ahead and give it to him...and i know it hasn't been long, but he hasnt' emailed yet, do you think he's just not interested? should i email him? i'm really shy to is the thing. and i know i'm not completely over my ex by any means, but i really don't want to miss out on the chance to get to know this guy better. Link to comment
Amannamederic Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 if he asked for it chances are he wants to email you first, but not come on too strong, just wait it out, you should have an email by the end of the week Link to comment
sugarandspice Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 hey honey don't worry i think he will email by the sounds of things you two hit if off! if he doesn't email though, get his adress! if you want him go for him girl! don't worry what he thinks....he may be too shy and worrying too much about what you think... but i think he will mail! S x Link to comment
confused9 Posted September 25, 2005 Author Share Posted September 25, 2005 no email from him yet, and it's already sunday! you think he's just not interested and i should give up? or should i ask for his email and email him? i'm sad. i really liked him... Link to comment
confused9 Posted September 26, 2005 Author Share Posted September 26, 2005 still no email from him but, i foudn out he's been out of town for work and won't be back for a few more days... so i got his email address and my friend that knows him said i should at least email to say hi, but i don't want to frighten him. i wish i had a better approach... Link to comment
DocHoliday Posted September 28, 2005 Share Posted September 28, 2005 Are you kidding? If I was this guy and got an email from you, I would be happy! It means that you took the initiative, and showed a stronger interest in him. In my opinion, you should e-mail him. Whats the worst that could happen? Is he going to hate you for saying hi? NO. He is going to be happily surprised and will defenetly e-mail back. And in this e-mail, get his phone number, or give him yours. It'll make things better. You will finally be able to talk and possibly go out and do somethig with him. /2 cents Hope it works out! Doc Link to comment
confused9 Posted September 28, 2005 Author Share Posted September 28, 2005 thanks doc! i did email him a few days ago, but i guesshe's out of the office till today. so i still haven't gotten a response. i kept it simple, 2 sentences and a cute joke.... should i be worried that i still haven't gotten a response. he really seemed to like me. oh well. i'll just try not to think about it.... Link to comment
confused9 Posted September 30, 2005 Author Share Posted September 30, 2005 so he got bak last night, and i have a friend that works for the same company, so i know they can't check they're email when they're away....but this was his reply to my earlier email.... "Hey! Sorry it's taken me so long to get back to you but I wasn't at work the beginning of this week. I actually got to go on a little trip to xxxx for a seminar for my next exam so I took advantage of the trip and left last Fri to meet up with some good friends of mine from college before the seminar. Now I'm back and what I learned during the seminar is how much I don't know, so for the next month I'll have to do some really hardcore studying. How is everything going with you? Having a good time in xxxx? Anyway, it was a lot of fun hanging out with you here, so some time we'll have to do it again." what do you think? i replied back with what i'd been doing and a couple of cute jokes;....i think i put something in there saying "it's just nice to know there are still nice guys out there" stupid huh? anyways, should there be a next step? he didn't ask me to have his babies or anything...so should i give up? save some self esteem? what do i do? Link to comment
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