kamurj Posted February 13, 2002 Share Posted February 13, 2002 does on line sex constitute reason for concern or jealousy Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 well? what is the answer? Link to comment
PreciousPrincess Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 does on line sex constitute reason for concern or jealousy Absolutely! It's exchanging intimate conversation and details with someone other than the person you are committed to. It's definite cause for concern in my opinion. Link to comment
daywalker2868 Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 I vote yes as well. PreciousPrincess's reasoning says it all. Link to comment
TANKGRL Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 I agree completely with he others. It's cheating!! Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 ummmm yes, even tho ure typing to each other its still a intimate moment even tho both parties are prolly masturbating to messgaes such as party 1: i want to **** you in the **** so long party 2: mmmmmm give it 2 me sweet picklefoots party 1: yeeeeeeaahhhh u love the pickles huh dont ya yeah party 2: OHHHHHHH YES SWEET PICKLESFOOT GIVE IT TOO ME yes if my girl was having one of those convos and its not with me its a def reason for me to be insecure, and grounds for dismissal Link to comment
DizzyDoris Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 This thread is 5 years old haha and the person who started it joined enotalone in 1978???!! Link to comment
Kimber038 Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 YES IT DOES. I know because my fiance went and met another from online in past and has lied about chatting and remarks made to others. it destroys trust. After being lied to, trust is so hard to come back. it also hurts like hell also. If someone loves you, then they wont feel the need to look elsewhere for love. Link to comment
lost_dreamer Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 It is definitely a form of cheating and cant be tolerated in a relationship. I have a friend (the subject of another topic i posted) who says that chatting online and forums is not "real life" so any flirting etc doesn't count. I don't agree with this as even when its over a computer screen the words or actions are still there and can even lead to more. Online flirting, sending pictures, Cybersex etc are all ways of having contact with someone other than the person you're with. Link to comment
sti_2004 Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 if the 2 partys could hook up in persn they would. Link to comment
illusionglimps Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 It just happened to me...I discovered my bf (we've been 2gether for a year) had *many* convo's with sluts on mIRC.Sex talks ...so I'm hurt and I'm trying to make it work with him again.Don't know where we'll go from here,what we'll do...if we can live the way we were....I'm very hurt.it derstroyed my trust in him and now I even think that he cheated in real life. Link to comment
viox Posted July 23, 2007 Share Posted July 23, 2007 yes if my girl was having one of those convos and its not with me its a def reason for me to be insecure, and grounds for dismissal I agree! If I saw something like that, there is no way I would stick around. Link to comment
girlhoo Posted July 24, 2007 Share Posted July 24, 2007 I have been in a relationship for close to 11 yrs and my previous one was 16 yrs. No one, NO ONE knows what degree of things they will ever put up with. This is from a person that has said this herself and then ate my words. We all have a tolerance level and I'm not saying everyone here is bs'ing but understand you just never know how much you will put up with. I have put up with quite a bit in my life and most of these things I said I would have never stood for Link to comment
undeniyable Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 I think when your involving yourself with someone else "sexually", in whatever way--phone, person, PC, it's all the same and constitutes as cheating. Link to comment
comfyshoes Posted August 11, 2007 Share Posted August 11, 2007 it is cheating. my ex would flirt with women in lesbian chatrooms and have conversations of a sexual nature. she would give them her phone number and continue these conversations by telephone. i was told that my jealousy was abnormal in regards to this and she made it the reason for breaking up on several occasions. to this day she swear that she never cheated on me as this behaviour is perfectly normal and flirting and wanting attention is just a normal way to be. i believe she has two women on the go now. i can only guess that they have a more liberal attitude to such matters than i do Link to comment
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