LoveOneAnother Posted July 17, 2005 Share Posted July 17, 2005 My boyfriend drinks and uses cocaine regularly. He always needs to go out a couple of times a week. He feels that he just needs his space and time to hang out with friends. He does not feel that he has a problem at all. He will promise to come home, but will stay out until the next morning. He does this at least once a week. He will not answer my phone calls while he is out and his ushual claim is that he simply fell asleep at a friends house. Sometimes he is sorry and will promise never to do it again. Other times he feels justified because of how upset I get over it. He feels that I am trying to control him. He says he has no respect for me whatsoever.(Basically because I do not have a job) I have a six year old, a 10 month old, and I am 9 months pregnant. Im not ready to work right now. I am very busy with my kids. Im not a perfect person, but I do my best. I am a good mother and a very loving girlfriend and friend to all I know. I cook and keep the house clean. Im a house mom, what is wrong with that? He feels that I am extremely selfish and lazy. This hurts me greatly. I am starting to hate myself for allowing this man to make me feel this way. Yet, maybe he is right? Is this typical behaviour of an addict? Have you ever been with a person like this? What are your thoughts? Feel free to agree or disagree. I could very well be the person in the wrong here. I just dont feel that I am, even if he tells me that I am. Link to comment
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