Should I get back together with her?

[d419]

I'm 20yo, about 10 months ago my then girlfriend of 1 1/2 years left me for reasons that were entirely justified (I didn't cheat on her but I didn't maintain a promise, so to speak). About 3 months later she started to see me again, yet this time she was hiding me from her friends. At the time I found out that she had already slept with 2 guys, both of them being drunken first night stands. I was with intimate with her for about another month before she left me again for another man. She says that she couldn't "deal with" me at the time and that she couldn't handle being back in a relationship with me. 3 months go by and she gets dumped by the guy she left me for. Long story -> short, about 5 months ago we decide to get back together again, me thinking it's not going to be anything serious but she vowing that she made mistakes and that she wants to make it work this time. Now we both have incredibely intense feelings for each other and have a very strong connection, but I don't know if I should get back together with her because I came to find out that she had had sexual relations with 5 men during our 7 month breakup.

 

Is it even worth trying one more time? I can't seem to get over her turning into a slut and now trying to get me back. For the past 3 months we've had good times but lots of bad times as well. For one thing I seem to find myself starting arguments with her over my feelings about her indiscretions.

 

What should I do? Get back together with her and try to forget about all the stuff she did while we were broken up or move on?

[bryan]

dont rush into anything. If you do, you expect too much and things will just go back to the way they were. Concentrate on dating her but dont get too attached. See if she really wants to make things work out. If she does, you will see the effort, if not, just keep moving on and using the last attempt to make things work out as closure for you. I wouldnt expect things to work out too well though, because I dont think she really knows what she wants especially when she sleeps with so many guys since you. She is probably using as fallback until she finds someone else. She is probably just going through a dry spell right now sorry to say. But nevertheless, give her a final chance but make her do all the effort. If you give all the effort, she will think she has you wrapped around your finger again and then she will let go of you again. She is probably using you as an ego thing to remind her that there are people who dont want to use her for just sex. Once she has confirmed this, she'll can your ass again

[dextro]

well, your situation is shizzy hehehe I wouldn't do that. A woman who would have done this to me oh myyyy I would have let her die slowly ( I dont mean killing her ). I can give a chance but I don't believe in the "back together shiit" It only cause trouble and make the things more difficult. But well if you are in love give her a last chance, but promise to yourself that this is the last time cause you can't live like that.

 

peace

[pimpcess]

U 2 have history so just chill, if u still care about eachother, dont just jump in 2 it, talk, go out places, U lost eachother 4 a while so just gradually get 2 know eachother again and everything will fall in 2 place, time is the best healer.