ex called

[lovestinks]

So my ex bf called today.....i was really not expecting it. i guess its true that u get a call when ur not thinkin about it.

 

Well anyways he called and was all nice like askin me all about my life. i gave him an update, new summer job and everything. He was tellin me he was on his way to a resturant (one that him and i used to frequently visit) and he was like i alway want to call u and invite you along but all my buddies come along too. He was like but i was wondering if you woudl want to go get something to eat with me one day. i was like ok. and didnt say anythig else about it. He was like i havnt talked to u in a long time, blah blah.

 

As we were talkin he was talkin about him gettin a new car and i told him i did and he was like oh so ur not drivin ur old one? i would always see cars just like urs and look to see if it was u but it never was, no wonder. and im thinkin geez i thought only i did that like a crazy person (course i didnt tell him that haha).

 

He then said he had to go cause he just got to the place and he woudl call me later.........dont worry im not sittin waiting for him to call.

 

Its just strange cause a couple weekends he called me boht the friday and sat. of that weekend to try and get me to go to parties with him and the other weekend he sent me a hey sweetie, how are you text. i never responded to it.

 

i just wanted some thoughts on the whole thing we broke up about 8 months ago on his part. i just think an ex doesnt put that much effort into you if they broke up with you. anyone have anything to say about my situation?

[hockeyboy]

sounds like he hasn't found anyone better than you, feels lonely and wants you back. Do not take him back - you are over him and need not become his consolation prise!

 

doesnt sound like she is over him to me. thats does not mean its a bad thing. sounds like you two didnt have a nasty breakup...if thats the case maybe you can try being friends and see where it goes.

[Drizown]

Everyone wants to be loved and needed, particularly by the person who broke up with us. I understand. What could be better than hearing from the man who just told you he didn't want you in his life anymore, his sad, wistful " i miss you so much" voice on the other end of the phone? It's validating, It's exciting, It's irresistible. But resist you must. If he's not sending a U-Haul to come pick up all your stuff and move it back into his house, then consider yourself a nice, downy little pillow cushioning him from his feelings of loneliness and loss that he's not fully ready to deal with on his own.

[loveydovey]

Everyone wants to be loved and needed, particularly by the person who broke up with us. I understand. What could be better than hearing from the man who just told you he didn't want you in his life anymore, his sad, wistful " i miss you so much" voice on the other end of the phone? It's validating, It's exciting, It's irresistible.

 

 

You took the words right outta my mouth