beks Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 I can’t tell if I did something very bad or not so bad. I’m a woman on a very affectionate coed sports team. My (female) friend/teammate and I smack each other on the butt to show affection. I wasn’t thinking and accidentally, spur of the moment did the same thing to my male teammate. It’s been a few days and in hindsight I feel awkward about it, It wasn't sexual, and I’ve never made that mistake before. we all are almost like a family, so I can’t tell if I’m overreacting, but now I feel shame. For context, he’s a really chill guy and hasn’t approached me about it. Should I talk to him (what would mostly likely be an awkward conversation) and apologize or just let it go? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 3 minutes ago, beks said: just let it go? It doesn't seem like you did anything unusual in the context of the general dynamics of the team camaraderie or did anything inappropriate. Just let the dust settle and let it go. Link to comment
Kwothe28 Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 OMG, sexual harassment... Kidding. Dont think he minded and in context its just funny. So, relax and let it go. 1 Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted September 11, 2023 Share Posted September 11, 2023 Let it go. If he's chill, then you be chill. If you regret it, don't do it again and keep moving forward. Link to comment
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