Liberty bells Posted November 2, 2022 Share Posted November 2, 2022 Adult daughter doesn’t want my boyfriend at thanksgiving dinner. She either wants me and my son to visit her out of state or will come to me only if it’s her, my son in law and my son. I’ve had other boyfriends at thanksgiving but not this one. Been seeing him over a year and he’s very nice but she doesn’t want him involved in the holiday. If he’s not invited he’ll be alone since his adult kids have other plans. I feel bad either way. What’s the right thing to do? Link to comment
DarkCh0c0 Posted November 2, 2022 Share Posted November 2, 2022 14 minutes ago, Liberty bells said: If he’s not invited he’ll be alone So? He's an adult. He can handle it. Maybe your daughter is tired of having different strangers/men at each Thanksgiving, and I think it's fine. If you don't want to go, you can stay with your bf. 1 Link to comment
Blue_Skirt Posted November 2, 2022 Share Posted November 2, 2022 Why do I think we have been here before? Are you the same person who wrote these topics under different user names? feelingletdown Is my boyfriend using me or is he being selfish? and tryingtotransition3009 How to deal with transitioning without so much anxiety and angst? I am asking because you mention that you mention your adult daughter and I have this déjà-vu feeling. 1 Link to comment
Lookingformore9 Posted November 2, 2022 Share Posted November 2, 2022 Must be someone else. Link to comment
Blue_Skirt Posted November 2, 2022 Share Posted November 2, 2022 So you are both "Liberty bells" and "Lookingformore9"? 1 Link to comment
Blue_Skirt Posted November 2, 2022 Share Posted November 2, 2022 The stories posted by “Lookingformore9”, “feelingletdown” and “tryingtotransition3009” are about a boyfriend who wants the OP to sell her house. They have rented an apartment together but OP still stays at her house during the week since it is a shorter commute to work and the adult daughter has voiced her opinion about the situation with this boyfriend. Link to comment
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