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I have to make a decision. Please can sm give my advice, I'm really hopeless right now. 3 months ago I moved to a different class, because my bff moved schools and there I had another close friend(which sometimes leaves me). I really regret it. I hate this new class so much. They're really fake and toxic. Should I return to the old one? This is my last chance, as they found a new student, so maybe I can switch. Why I'm hesitating is that in this old class there are new friend groups and I won't have this close friend as they are all in different groups. Believe me, there is no chance for. a new friendships, I know these ppl. I also feel very stupid towards everyone. WHAT SHOULD I DO??????? 

PS- im in 2nd grade of highschool, 2 more years left

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Why I'm hesitating is that in this old class there are new friend groups and I won't have this close friend as they are all in different groups

You're relying too much on one or two friends to fulfill your social life. That's smothering and too much pressure on a friend, and if they distance themselves from you, that could be a reason. You have to also realize it's normal for friendships to evolve. Sometimes they grow, sometimes the connection lessens, and sometimes the friendship ends. It's a normal part of life.

If you're not finding friends in your classes, join a club inside or outside of school. You're bound to have fun with others who like the same activity, such as the yearbook committee, drama, creative writing, band, sports. Also, learn to like your solo time. Don't always feel like you need the company of another to enjoy life. 

Yes, talk to your parents about your options.

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If you feel uncomfortable in the new class and don't get along with the other students, maybe it is a good idea to switch back to the old class. This friend you have in the new class is probably not a true friend if they just leave you by yourself. A real friend wouldn't do that. So maybe you don't have that much to lose by switching to the old class. If this is your last chance to change, you may regret it if you don't. Listen to your gut feelings because I think deep down you'll know what you really want.

I doubt there is no chance to make new friends. You still have a few years of high school left and unless you go to a very small school, there should be a chance to get to know at least some of the other students. You could join some after school activities or even social groups or youth groups outside of your school. Can you still catch up with your bff too in your free time?

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