what do you think? plz reply

[Nala02]

I have posted before about my friend Cody and I. To sum it up quick and get to now, well basically had a 1st date, I moved to fast, wanting him to cuddle up and stuff with me, he decided there was no feelings from him to me and so just wants to be friends,

Ok, yesterday we hung out all day, I didnt leave his house till 8 this morning, we ended up kissing and hugging, a lil hot and heavy, both of us wanted to, i asked him if he would ever change his mind about dating me and he kind of looked deep in my eyes and said maybe.

So do you think this is a good sign or what?

Nala02

[MetallicAguy]

If he really did look deep into your eyes like he said he's basically saying yeah. I think why he wants to be friends is because you pressured him into it. Just take things a little slow for the first 2 weeks, then you can get into whatever you want lol.

[Helpme86]

I dont wanna say yes, but I dont wanna say no. Does he seem just as interested in you as you do with him? I guess there is more to it if you did not leave till early morning.

[Nala02]

well see he has told me theres no strong feelings as I do him but last night , I think he does, he has been burned bad in the past. I think yes hes interested as much as I as in him.

[imagi]

He sounds interested in you. And you guys are friends, so he probably wouldn't do anything to jeporadize that. You might want to just take things slowly at first because that might be part of what's holding him back. But, because you are friends it wouldn't surprise me if he has changed his mind. I'm sorry if this doesn't make a lot of sense. Good luck though!

[Helpme86]

It is a lot more difficult with people who were hurt in past relationship. Just try your best to prove to him that you are for real. Getting hot and heavy so fast might put him off again, I dont know him, so thats just a guess.

[playfull06]

Maybe take it slow. It sounds like when you went on that first date you moved to fast and it scared him. He is deffinetly interested though. Good luck.

[Nala02]

Ok, heres the update so far...

 

Basically he has went from a total no of never dating to a maybe, i dont know. We talked about it a few nights ago, said hes never gave up on dating me, just we're not on the same level on things and Im not as experieced as him, and what he means by that is hes been hurt this way and that, it was a long convo. Said that when I get on the same level as him, we can date. I dont know the whole thing is confusing!!

Nala02

What do you think?