Htmlguy Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 I have a friend who is married and we talk to each other every day. She talks to me a hundred times a day either through emails or talking. I know she likes me. I have feelings for her. She is leaving for another state. Should I tell her how I feel or let it go? I dont want to wake up one morning and regret. Something tells me that I shouldn't. So i need an opionion on this matter. Thanks, Link to comment
Nifty_Swifty1 Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 If she's married stay the hell away!!! Be friends all you like, but if you let you mind take you anywhere other than friendship you will do something you will regreat. Link to comment
lady00 Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Agreed. She is married. Don't tell her how you feel. Cut back on your contact with her and focus on other women. That way, hopefully your feelings for her will gradually dissipate. Something tells you not to tell her, you said...that's your gut...trust it. Link to comment
greenowl88 Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 If you want to break up a marriage, go for it! Link to comment
nexus532 Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 Its your call, after all its your life. Just remember that if you did take her away from her husband all three of you will have to live with that weight on your sholders. My opinion, just stay friends. Link to comment
derk01 Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 She's married man! Get away. You need to be looking for singles! Link to comment
Htmlguy Posted May 3, 2005 Author Share Posted May 3, 2005 She is gone which I am kind of relieved. I couldn't take the pressure anymore. Before she gave me a very tight hug and left. After that i was sorta relieved somehow. Although the hug was nice. Link to comment
Htmlguy Posted May 3, 2005 Author Share Posted May 3, 2005 The tight hug does not mean anything. It was just a nice hug that is all. Link to comment
sweet_bebcho Posted May 3, 2005 Share Posted May 3, 2005 Its not a Julia Roberts movie so it wont have a happy ending. Let it go, dont break up a marriage, you have no idea how the people in it are gonna feel if it all falls apart because you shared your feelings. Wish her the best in the future and keep intouch, its the best you can do as a friend. It never works out, trust me, someone always gets hurt. Link to comment
cleverme123 Posted May 3, 2005 Share Posted May 3, 2005 Okay, first she is married. Red flag here, not available for any feelings with any one else without a great deal of hurt and financial pain!!! Don't do it, you could screw up her life, your life and ultimately someone elses life. How do I know, my husband is friends with an ex girlfriend who calls him excessively and sees him all the time, and it hurts real bad. But it don't stop. Take the advice, Let it alone! Hugs as friends is different from I want to be with you hugs. Back off, save the feelings for someone who is available to be with you. Link to comment
TooTall20 Posted May 5, 2005 Share Posted May 5, 2005 see i have same problem...only im the one going to different state, and we aready had a night together, and it was fun and we had alot of spark..shes 24 and im 19 but she said that it didn't matter and it wasn't working out wiht her husband..so i know what you are feeling.. but i too don't know what to do Link to comment
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