VladNicolae Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 Hello So, my case I guess is a little easier one in comparison with the others, but I still need some advice in order to know what to do next. So, I am 18 and my ex is 16. We are both in the same high school. We were in a relationship for about 3 months and we broke up a month ago.(I know it's not that much but we did way too many things together during this relationship and I want to get back with her because I see potential in this relationship) We broke up because of loss of attraction I guess. She didn't really know why she wanted to break up at first then she said she can't find her feelings from the beginning of the relationship and I tried to be cool with it even though I felt like breaking down all the time. We met and I talked to her and at the end of the walk I asked her if there is any chance we can go back together because the relationship wasn't bad at all we didn't have a single fight and we were feeling just fine. But then she hit me with "I don't know" and " I can't find those feelings" and I told her that it's ok and if she ever needs someone to talk about when she feels down and stuff she could call me. After that she hit me with a message 2 days later and I told her that I understand and didn't say anything else. And after that I asked her to meet me at school so I could give her my shirt to fix it and she seemed kinda sad when I hugged her goodbye. And after all this I gave her a message and told her that I am sorry for how I was in the ending of the relationship that I wasn't me back then and that I gave her this message not get back together but only to let her know. After that we talked for a little while and we talked again 2 days later. And in the time we were talking she would sometimes send me videos or photos of her and her pets, which I though might be a good sign. However I gave her another message a day later and she just gave me seen, but I guess she gave me seen because I didn't answer her message until a day later even though I told her that I study. And so the next day I called her and asked her if we could meet but she had other plans. And so I called her again the next day, 2 times. She didn't pick up but she called me back after the second one and I told her that I'm in the neighborhood and I was just wondering if she would like to go out for a walk but she told me that she has a lot of work and that maybe we will go out in the vacation( the vacation is over 2 weeks and I called her 5 days ago). And now I am stuck here and wondering what to do because I would text her or something but I don't want her to think that I'm needy. And also the next week I have a school trip that lasts 3 days and when we were together she told me that she can watch over my pets and I don't really know if I should approach her again and ask her to come and take care of my pets or if I should just wait until the vacation to see if she wants to meet. I know where I was wrong. I was being too available, too needy and too clingy even though in my head I thought I wasn't( but that's because in the past weeks we wouldn't hang out as much as we used too) I need someone to give me some opinions so I could consider what to do next. I really improved myself in the past month by working out and reading psychology books and improving my mental state, but I just want to be with her again because I see so much potential in this relationship. Link to comment
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