bhundle1 Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 The last 6 months have been the craziest roller coaster. My ex and I got together and it was a whirlwind of dates, vacations together, meeting friends, my calling him my boyfriend and us making plans to visit my family. But he never called me his girlfriend. During the course of our relationship he mentioned going to Miami with his friends to fish over new year's. Every time I would ask who's going he'd act sketchy and say it's not like you know them, they're just friends. At first I was upset he was missing new year's eve, but then we made a deal as long as he was back for my bday on 1/2 he could go. Flash forward to our first fight when I found out that he had booked the trip over my birthday and said that he didn't think it was a big deal. We got into a big fight over it and stopped talking for a few weeks. He started telling people we were over while I was telling them we were just taking a break. Then we talked, and things seemed to be ok, we went back to dating and had a great date, but then he started acting cold and standoffish right before his trip. While he was on his trip I found out his ex gf was also on the trip, which broke my heart since I knew he had been lying to me all along about it being a boys trip. I tried to confront him about it, but could only do so over text (which he never responded to) as I was leaving for a trip myself as soon as he returned. On my flight back home right now he's now changed his relationship status on Facebook to single. I'm devastated. No conversation, no nothing, this is someone who was talking marriage and saying I love you to me less than 2 months ago. How do I respond? I want closure, I want answers, I want anything. Link to comment
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