Anon1122 Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 Hello all I am new here and I hope I am in the right place, will try to keep this short. My wife and I have been married for 3 years now, iam 27 she is 29. She is from another country and just recently got the ability to legally work. For years I have been used to her being a stay at home wife where I know she is safe and all. - she has a co worker who is 18 years old, in highschool. She says she feels bad for him because he has it pretty rough, mom is an addict, dad an alchoholic, etc. She asked me for permission to be able to take him to a basketball game, movies, etc something to help get his mind off the stressors of home. As i said, she asked me first, and shes always been faithful. But why am I so concerned about her doing something like this? Its not her that Iam worried about, its people who know me/us who might see her with this guy and think something not so positive. And i keep thinking about what i would do if i was 18 again and a good looking married 29 year old woman asked me out to the movies or something --- I would totally try to hit that! And thats another thing iam concerned about, i dont even want that to happen to my wife even if i know she wouldnt do it. Am I too obsessive or controlling? What should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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