Shy girl new to dating scene

[shygirl209]

Hello, I previously had a post about a very bad breakup and now I feel scared about my future because I was with my ex for 8 years and found out he cheated. I love him a lot but I don’t think I can forgive him especially since the girl he cheated on me with is pregnant. I am 26 years old and I am very very shy and I don’t really like to go out a lot so I feel like I will never find someone because of the lack of confidence I have. Any ideas on how I can stop thinking about my ex and embrace the future.

[DanZee]

Yeah, you have to get out and about and busy yourself with pampering yourself. Go to museums and concerts and libraries and events. Take a course, sign up for yoga, join a gym, write poetry or songs. You want to try to push your ex out of your head and fill it with other things until you find someone new.