EllanKov Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 Me and my gf have been known each other for about 5 years, on and off we have been together for 3,5. We've been through some breakups and even been with other people for short periods of time but we always ended up back together. Now we've been together for i'd say around 4/5 months and things were ok. Last month was a little harder, I was sick and had some things on my mind and I think she did too. 2,5 weeks ago she had a birthday party, everything was normal. I drove her there and offered to pick her up when she was done, and I did. When I picked her up she was telling me how much she loved me, she wanted to stay over at my place but I had to work early in the morning so I said it wasn't a good idea. She kept showing a lot of affection, love and really showing that she was happy with me (which wasn't weird, she always showed that). So the next 2 days we didn't text that much, I dont know why. Out of the blue she said things weren't really going well and she said it might be better to just be friends. Ofcourse I didn't agree and told her that, there were no signs that this was going to happen so I was really surprised. We only saw each other once in the last 2 weeks, we barely text, and if we do its because I text her first. Yesterday we talked on the phone and I basically tried to get her to give it one more shot, but she kept saying no. It was not until I told her I couldn't just be friends when she was kinda shocked and she also started crying, she kinda begged me and tried to change my mind about being friends, but that is really hard for me. I don't think she is cheating on me, which makes the whole situation even more weird for me, how can she go from loving me till the moon one day to not having feelings anymore the next day(s)? Anyone who wants to share their knowledge because I'm really stuck here.. Should I stay friends and try to get her to see that we really should be together? Or should I just straight up delete her out of my life (sounds easier than it is).. I'm lost. Thank you for reading. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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