lonelydays Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Hey, everyone. I had this really rocky fwb relationship with this girl for a year. We dated for like a month in the beginning but we realized we weren't good together and became fwb. It was always really rocky and she broke things off a lot. During these "break-ups", I would chat up and sometimes bed other girls and she would sometimes bed her ex. Recently I really started getting strong feelings for her. I always had them, but they were definitely stronger and more "real". Like, I was starting to imagine her as my wife "real". I told her all this and she always rejected me, saying something like "No! We're good as fwb. We're never going to date." and I just accepted it. One night we got into a REALLY bad fight and she broke things off completely and had me blocked from everything. Made it crystal clear she never wanted anything to do with me again. I was hurt but I'm a naturally resilient person. I'm not the kind of person to sit around and mope. So, the next day, I called up a really sexy girl I met and we spent all night in bed. We (the fwb and I) started talking again and I told her this and she quite literally crumbled. "HOW could you even DO that?!!!" she was almost hysterical. She was extremely upset that I slept with someone else so soon after she cut me off when I told her I had strong feelings for her. She said she felt like my feelings for her were a lie. But my question is, why does she care? She made it clear she had no feelings for me so why do mine for her matter? Was I wrong? Maybe there's something that I can't see. I guess she wanted me to sit around and cry over her or something? Link to comment
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