Sanders6127 Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 Hello, Basically, to cut a long story short, ive been seeing a guy for 10 months and the past 5/6 months he has been treating me like dog crap but i was too blind to see it. I believed his excuses for not pursuing a relationship with me(strict parents-turns out not so strict), he would use my insecurities and weaknesses to his advantage (fear of being abandoned, cant stand being deliberately ignored), he would be sweet and caring when he wanted something(recently persuaded me to spend £50 on him, in exchage for him to come and see me for a couple of hours), he would go days ignoring me because of issues i wasnt involved with, he would only see me when it suited him (mostly for sex) and he would never put me first. He would have ago at me when i asked to see him, he would get nasty and say horrible thi gs when he is angry (angry at kther people, not me) You get the point. My friends have been trying to get me to end it for months but i thought i loved him. Ive come to my senses but i dont know how to do it. Were not in a relationship and he is currently taking abot 5 hours to reply to each message after ignoribg me for 2 days. He also has his coat at my place. I dont think i can do it in person as selfish as it is, im scared ill chicken out. Im also scared of regretting my decisuon and hating myself for it. I dont think I can get any more bogged down and upset by him but im scared. Just looking for advice and support TY Link to comment
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