Binz86 Posted September 17, 2017 Share Posted September 17, 2017 Hey I am new to this but here goes... I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years, we have a baby together and also live together. He works out of town a lot so I don't get to see him as much as I would like. Here are some of the issues; he goes to strip clubs about 2/3 of the time when he is out of town. Probably like Atleast 3 times a month. I wouldn't care if he went like once a year w his buddies or for a bachelor party, but I feel this is excessive? on top of that he comes home and rarely wants to have sex. Yes I know we are out of that stage but come on, I'm only getting it 1-2 times a month! He also watches porn a lot. Again I'm not against it, I understand when he is out of town he needs it. But what gets me is when I try to initiate sex and he turns me down but will go watch porn? He says he still loves me and that I am attractive and beautiful but what's a girl going to think? Back to the strip club thing, he does not drink alcohol. So that kind of makes me think too. Like you can't even say you spent money on alcohol so why 200 for 3 hours watching half naked young girls dance? My boyfriend is 40 and I'm 30 so I know that might have something to do w sex drive but it is just so hurtful that he doesn't want to look at or touch me but frequents strip clubs and porn instead. Idk what I'm looking for, I guess for someone else's opinion. Thanks Link to comment
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