funkyfresh Posted August 19, 2017 Share Posted August 19, 2017 A bit back I posted about a girl who I wanted a relationship with, but she said she wants to be friends first and see how things go. So now instead of dating, we're just really good friends. We text each other constantly, we call each other every night and speak for hours (she tells me to speak to her until she falls asleep, and never lets me hang up). We have plans to go see a few concerts with each other, and she wants me to come by some time and have drinks and watch a movie. So I think to myself, honestly, I truly enjoy having her as a friend even though I'm still sexually attracted to her, but if she decides it won't go past friendship then I'm okay with that. So now here's the part where I get confused. She has a fwb. I'm okay with that (for now), as her and I are not dating. It does bother me, but I would imagine if anything was to happen between her and I then she wouldn't be seeing him as a fwb anymore? but I mean we'll cross that bridge IF we come to it. I've also started seeing a different girl. Only a date so far, but it's been good. I thought my other "friend" would be happy for me but it seems like she's always upset that I'm giving this new girl that I'm seeing more time than her, and she texts me things occasionally like "I'm going to cry if she becomes your new best friend" or she'll constantly want to talk about her and compare herself to her. The thing that bothers me is that the girl I originally liked was into the whole "friends first and if something happens it happens, and if it doesn't it doesn't" is now getting weird with me AFTER I do what she tells me to do and I see other girls. Is she just craving the attention? Does she like me and just want to take things slow and doesn't like how I have someone else now? What should I do? Thanks for any input guys. Link to comment
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