Why Does She Want Me Jealous?

[EnolWolf]

This hasn't hit me until today, and it's something that I'm very curious about.

 

My girlfriend tries to make me jealous. The sad thing for her is that I'm not the jealous type.

 

Things she has done:

 

1. Ignored me and talked to other guys at work

2. Told some guy to blow in her eye (asked me how I felt about it)

3. Hugs other guys in front of me

4. Tells me stories about guys hitting on her

5. Told me a guy bit her on the neck last week

6. Told me a guy winked at her today

7. Makes comments about guys with huge muscles (I lack those)

8. Tells me compliments other guys give her

9. Let a guy use her chap stick

 

I added this all together when I noticed that she would actually ask me if I'm jealous or if that bothers me in any way. My answer is no because it doesn't. In the end, I know she's all mine. 8)

 

Anyway, I think she's the jealous type becuase she straight-out told me that she dislikes me hugging my girl friends in front of her. Then, she took it back so that she wouldn't make it seem like I could get to her.

 

She keeps making comments about me going to Miami and messing with other girls as well.

 

She also makes comments like "If a girl ever bites you, sits on your lap, or kisses you, I'll come to your house and mess you up."

 

Even though she's not serious about messing me up, the fact is that she can't stand me being around other girls especially if she's not around.

 

If she's so jealous, why try to make me jealous? I don't understand what one could accomplish.

 

Any comments or advice would be appreciated.

 

By the way, I think it's cute when she does those things. I try hard not to laugh.

[EnolWolf]

I forgot to mention that she also told me that I could at least act jealous when someone approaches her or anything like that.

 

Something about showing that I care...

 

Thanks for reading!

[Beec]

She is insecure and wants to know she can push your buttons. I'd be annoyed, at HER, not any other guy. Tell her to cut the crap.

[EnolWolf]

I'll tell her that I don't want to hear anything of that sort unless it's important.

 

Your right though SHE can be annoying.

 

Thanks for replying!

[EnolWolf]

Oops! I just realized I posted under ex-bf/gf relationships!

 

I'm sorry. This problem is occurring with my current girlfriend.

[Jetta]

She does this because she equates jealousy with love. She doesn't think your feelings for her are strong if you don't get jealous.

[EnolWolf]

That makes a lot of sense. There's no way in the world I'll even pretend to be jealous. I'm doing enough as it is.

 

I'm just going to straight-out ask her why she does that.

 

She's just going to say "What do you mean? I don't know what you're talking about. You're trippin',"

 

But hey, it's worth a shot.

 

Thanks for reading!

[HajiMaji]

The above poster is correct. I wish you luck with this girl man!