Sex question...how hard should his penis be?

[jitterbug]

Ok, that's a stupid title, but I didn't know how to phrase it.

 

Basically, I've had sex with someone new for the first time, and it was great, we're compatible and there's a lot of chemistry. He seemed incredibly turned out and was erect for most of the afternoon we spent together, but I just felt like he was never THAT hard. Is that kind of normal? It's just not something I've experienced before, and it was a bit strange. The sex was still good, but he didn't feel as hard as a man would usually... however, I get the impression it's normal for him.

 

I don't think I care that much, although it did makes things a bit more difficult. Mostly I'm just curious and don't really want to talk to my male friends about it right now!

[j.man]

Basically, I've had sex with someone new for the first time, and it was great... The sex was still good, but he didn't feel as hard as a man would usually... however, I get the impression it's normal for him.

Well, if the sex was great and the condom stayed on, I'd venture to guess he was "hard enough."

 

I mean never having grasped the guy's penis, I couldn't give you some random value on the stiffy scale for how hard he was. I would say that if it was enjoyable, spare yourself the needless overthinking and just enjoy yourself.

[ThatwasThen]

This question is akin to "how tight should a woman be."

 

*lol'd at "stiffy scale."

[LaHermes]

"....and was erect for most of the afternoon we spent together,..."

 

Heavens! The scientific world will be falling over itself to interview him!!!

[jitterbug]

Haha, stiffy scale made me laugh too.

 

I think it's just that...it made it a bit difficult to get it in? That's my only sort of concern. And it's not really about him. The sex was good mostly cos of our chemistry and everything else. But the actual penetration part was a little fumbley and awkward.

 

Oh this is weird to talk about. But yeah, it's just new to me. Maybe part of me is thinking "is something wrong, is it me?" But that's probably stupid.

 

Casual sex is a new territory for me!

[jitterbug]

"....and was erect for most of the afternoon we spent together,..."

 

Heavens! The scientific world will be falling over itself to interview him!!!

 

Tell me about it! I found it a bit overwhelming. He can keep going for a reeeally long time without needing to finish, too. So all of this is new to me...he seems to be quite a specimen. Jesus, I got worn out before he did.

[LaHermes]

Gives a whole new meaning to that phrase:

 

"Can you feel the force".

[ThatwasThen]

Just don't ask him if he's in yet, Op.

[jitterbug]

Haha oh god, I can see this thread descending into comedy...

[ThatwasThen]

Haha, stiffy scale made me laugh too.

 

I think it's just that...it made it a bit difficult to get it in? That's my only sort of concern. And it's not really about him. The sex was good mostly cos of our chemistry and everything else. But the actual penetration part was a little fumbley and awkward.

 

Oh this is weird to talk about. But yeah, it's just new to me. Maybe part of me is thinking "is something wrong, is it me?" But that's probably stupid.

 

Casual sex is a new territory for me!

How old is he?

[jitterbug]

He's 29. Few years older than me.

[LaHermes]

Oh lawdy. Hope it wasn't priapism.

 

 

Still. Uncharted territory maybe Jitter. Boldly going and all that.

[jitterbug]

Oh lawdy. Hope it wasn't priapism.

 

 

Still. Uncharted territory maybe Jitter. Boldly going and all that.

 

No, no not like that. It wasn't erect the whole time, but just rather...up and down, quite a lot. I don't know. It didn't seem to cause him discomfort.

[LaHermes]

"It didn't seem to cause him discomfort."

 

Such a comforting thought Jitter. lol.

 

Love you Jitter!

 

"It wasn't erect the whole time, but just rather...up and down, quite a lot. I don't know"

 

Smiling broadly here.

[jitterbug]

Hahah I didn't mean it like that! Oof, I'm blushing. This seems so silly.

[jitterbug]

LaHermes, I'm here to entertain.... haha. Oh dear, this is making me laugh. What a day.

[LaHermes]

Let us entertain you.

 

Lord knows there is a bit of need of entertainment at times here with all the doom, gloom and general angst. lol.

[pippy longstocking]

All afternoon ..dear god , I would be like * mate I have stuff to do , can we get the money shot done and dusted *

[LaHermes]

Yeh. Pîppy.

 

I stand in awe. Where did you find him, Jitter?!

[ThatwasThen]

All afternoon ..dear god , I would be like * mate I have stuff to do , can we get the money shot done and dusted *

 

*laughed like hell, here*

[ThatwasThen]

He's 29. Few years older than me.

 

Well, I guess chances of it being erectile dysfunction aren't as high with someone his age. Does he have diabetes?... that would cause the up then down of it all.

 

Reminds me of a Fall Fair ride. lol

[LaHermes]

Oh gosh Jitter. Maybe he swallowed a whole handful of those lovely blue pills......

 

Did he mention at any time that you also looked the colour blue?!

[jitterbug]

Hahaha I'm crying here. Oh my. Yes, this thread is much more fun from my bloody pain and misery of a couple weeks back.

 

Yeah..I don't know. He's got stamina. After a while I was kinda like...can you please cum now?

 

It was great but a bit odd, overall. There's my review.

[LaHermes]

I've read worse reviews, Jitter!

 

"It was great but a bit odd, overall."

 

LMAO

[jitterbug]

Think I should tell him? ;p