Cd28 Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 Sometimes when I have sex for more than 2 hours and have been "holding off the moment" so to speak, it's not as hard as in the beginning. You should feel good that he wants to have sex with you for that long, that shows how into you he is. He could very easily finish right away, I'm guessing, but he wants to extend the session. Try switching to a position where blood flow is at its peak to that spot. Was it harder in certain positions versus others? Just a thought Link to comment
jitterbug Posted August 13, 2017 Author Share Posted August 13, 2017 Hmm that's interesting. No, it seemed to be the same in any position. Putting on a condom seems to be difficult for him, like he loses the erection from it. But yeah...to be honest, it didn't seem like he was putting off finishing. More like it was a bit hard to get there? I don't know. There's a chance he was a bit nervous. I certainly was & my body wasn't acting completely normal. Link to comment
camwhite18 Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 I believe if he can last a long time, longer than you say what is normal, he Might watch a lot of pornography. When i watched a lot of porn, I wasn't able to achieve ejaculation with my gf, or when I did, it was after a while AND I didn't have fully erect boners, but still hard enough to enjoy sex. Don't bring this up to him, unless his porn habit causes him to one day not be able to achieve any erection at all and trust me, it does happen to some guys. Overall, my point is ,is don't worry about It, if he is still getting hard and you're enjoying the sex, everything is fine. The pornography was just my reasoning on why he could not be as hard as he can be. Link to comment
jitterbug Posted August 13, 2017 Author Share Posted August 13, 2017 Oh okay, that's an interesting perspective. Maybe? I'm not sure. I wouldn't bring it up, no, especially as this isn't a relationship. Hmm. Thanks for your input. Link to comment
Applewhite Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 I concur with the pornography angle but I don't think it's a good idea to NOT bring it up. Porn has other ideas effects too in addition to the erectile disfunction you re mentioning. You can watch "your brain on porn" on you tube to get an idea. Link to comment
jitterbug Posted August 13, 2017 Author Share Posted August 13, 2017 I can't help but think of the film Don Jon... I concur with the pornography angle but I don't think it's a good idea to NOT bring it up. Porn has other ideas effects too in addition to the erectile disfunction you re mentioning. You can watch "your brain on porn" on you tube to get an idea. Oh you think it should be discussed? Even in a kind of...fling-type situation with no commitment? I feel like that would be difficult to broach...and maybe not my business? I don't know. I'm so open though, I find it hard not to just talk about things, to be honest. Link to comment
Applewhite Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 I can't help but think of the film Don Jon... Oh you think it should be discussed? Even in a kind of...fling-type situation with no commitment? I feel like that would be difficult to broach...and maybe not my business? I don't know. I'm so open though, I find it hard not to just talk about things, to be honest. Oh well if it's a fling that's not going anywhere you're just going to move on so why even post about it let alone talk with him... Link to comment
jitterbug Posted August 13, 2017 Author Share Posted August 13, 2017 Uh...why bothering commenting when you clearly haven't read the posts? Jeez. Link to comment
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