CBC2000 Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 Hey guys, so it's been a while since I've posted here because I just really needed a moment to myself. I love this website, but I felt like I was depending on it too much to heal from my break up. Anyways during my healing process my ex contacted me after not speaking for about a month saying he was sorry via text message and when I didn't respond he called to apologize, during the phone call he asked me out to dinner and I agreed. The dinner started of rocky because I was still upset at him something he had done the month prior, but it ended well. After the date he would text me everyday and then it kinda stopped. The other day I ran into him at the gym and he asked me to go get some food with him and I went, i asked him what he wanted from me because I felt like he was being hot and cold with me and he stated that he was still in love with me, but he is still bothered about my past so he wanted to take time to figure this out. During this dinner he asked me to go to a concert with him next month and I told him that I'm not sure if we would even still be speaking then and he said we would make it happen. The next day which was 2 days ago, he texted me saying that he noticed that my car was dirty and he wanted to see if he can get it washed during my lunch hour and I said yes, he came to my Job to pick my car up and took me to lunch after. I thought we were semi on the right track, but I haven't heard from him since 2 days ago, no text message or calls or anything. I haven't reached out to him, because I know what I want and I don't want to seem desperate. This has been killing me because I'm so used to communicating who is or wants to be with me almost everyday . A part of me wants to just actually let him go because I cannot afford to get heart broken again especially by the same person. Another part of me wants to wait and see what happens in the next week. What should I do, an I overthinking this situation or should I let this man go? Link to comment
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