AtitAgain Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Quick break down. I was married before for 2.5 years. Separated since September (I left). Was alone until end of February. Proposed living apart but still seeing each other - ex refused several times. In February I decided to move on. In the end of February I started seeing a girl I met on Tinder (see my other post for details). Started an exclusive relationship with her. From the middle of March onwards my ex-wife kept calling and texting me to see if I wanted to come over to her place to have sex. I refused several times. Eventually in the middle of April I agreed to it. I spent a Saturday at her place, had sex several times that day. Another time about a week later, I went over again to grab some mail, and it happened again. After that second time, I refused to let it happen again, and made it clear that this is now no longer an option, as I am in a relationship. Since then I have not cheated on my GF at all, and have no intentions of doing so. I am happy in my relationship. I do feel somewhat bad for what happened, but have decided to not tell my GF, as I fear it will just be a source of pain to her, and cause us to lose what we have. I had never cheated on anyone before... and don't plan on doing it again. I love my GF, and what I did was extremely unfair to her... Thoughts? Link to comment
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