LatinSoul Posted June 3, 2017 Share Posted June 3, 2017 I got divorce over a year ago. Few months after it was legal, I started dating this woman that I met online. In a few months, a strong sexual and sentimental relationship developed. At the beginning of this year, I also met this 2nd woman. I was starting to get confused about my feelings with the 1st woman. I know it was a mistake, as I eventually dated both at the same time for probably 2 weeks or so (had no sex with the 2nd one though). Eventually, I broke up with the 1st one. I know and I knew it was wrong. I've been dating this 2nd woman now for almost 2 months? She's very educated and professional. She even makes more money than me; I know it is not the most important thing but sadly, it gives stability if you want to establish a relationship. This is the 1st time I meet a woman that makes more than me (I do make a decent amount of income a year) But the problem with her is that it is coming from a very strict and conservative family. We were not intimate until recent. She cannot stay overnight with me, she's 33 but very afraid of what her father may say. She also has a 8 years old kid, which her parents take care most of the time. And I don't know why... flashes of the 1st women I dated and I broke up, started coming to my mind. The sex was amazing. Communication was amazing. She has kids too, a 9 years old daughter which I love. But her level of education is not the same. She is very humble woman. She has also had alcohol and substance abused problem. And she does weed often. She is very responsible with her daughter and house responsibilities though. Few days ago, I started dating both again, same time, and now I am having sex with both of them. I feel like I do love both of them, but I know I must end one relationship. With the 1st one, I have a very intense and passionated sex life. I have a step daughter that I love and care. But with the 2nd one, I can have awesome conversations too. She's a professional woman with little or no sex experience. What should I do? I would also say that when I went back with the 1st one, the humble girl, I found a used condom in her room. She made excuses initially but eventually admitted had sex the day before with someone she just met. I do not consider this being unfaithful, as we were not being together, but I should say it bothers me a bit and somehow it hurt me too. Link to comment
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