hwm8 Posted May 18, 2017 Share Posted May 18, 2017 So about a year ago she broke up with me. I was partying all the time and not really doing much with my life. Fast forward a few months and I quit drinking, became a very active runner, and have a great job. This was about July. Since then she showed back up in my life we've been working on getting back together. Things have been good overall. We went on a trip out of the country for a long weekend and had a great time. We dont fight as bad as we used to etc etc etc. An odd thing is starting in October we stopped having sex because she said she wanted to make sure we could fix our relationship first. And now the problem lately is her life has hit a rough patch. Her grandmother just came back from being out of the country for 6 months and shes very sick. On top of that about 2 weeks ago she found out her mom was sick too. Her grandma lives with her so she has to take care of her. Because of this she told me she won't have much time to see me and that she can only see me on Sundays after work for a couple hours. I let her know I didnt like it but I understood. This past Sunday she canceled on me (it was mothers day so i didnt get upset) but now it's been a week and a half since we've seen each other. She used to text me daily to see how my day was. She hasn't done that since this whole thing started. We have plans for this Sunday but I'm a bit worried she'll cancel again. I know shes stressed but I would think she'd have time to at least text for a few moments during the week or be able to meet more than just 2-3 hours on Sundays. This whole working on getting back together thing is stressful at times especially with all these external factors coming into play. Am I overreacting? Or is she using this as an excuse to slowly drift away again? Link to comment
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