xyz27 Posted May 18, 2017 Share Posted May 18, 2017 Hi. Recently I have realized the different ways in which I can flirt with two separate crushes. One is very masculine, and I am getting the vibe that he wants to be the one to take charge, and to be the pursuer. I have initiated a few times, only by response, though. If he says something, or posts something I'll respond, but I don't initiate a full on communication for starters. This seems to be working, but he is just recently single and I've felt the need to back off. I did admit that I liked him, and he didn't flee... But, I am feeling like backing off would be the best option right now. Sooo.... onto my first crush. (The one before the above one came along.) He is very open to sexual innuendo flirting, and is more of a guy that I can be the "Ruth" type with. So, in other words, I can do a little bit of the pursuing, even if it is still in a responsive way. I think I like this dynamic more, but I am still conflicted. I like them both, in different ways, and I can't figure out who to "pursue" or hang onto. I know the saying, "If you chase two rabbits, you will catch neither", but I really really like them both. Any advice on what to do? Should I figure out in my head, and heart which one I want to stick to, or should I back off completely off both of them and see which one comes after me ? Help please. Link to comment
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