Marmy1258 Posted May 13, 2017 Share Posted May 13, 2017 Hi all First time post, sorry its long. Some questions at the end. Me and my girlfriend are together 4 months things started off great and we fell for each other rather quickly. We both love each other alot and everyone we know says how in love we are. I then started to notice she had a lot of guy friends and would be messaging them alot. I have no problem with guy friends but some these guys were people she met while travelling and only met once in her life. I found this strange and it led to numerous arguments. I then seen her txting one and he was asking "when do i get to see your pretty face again?" to which she replied "whenever you come to see me (and lots of smilies)" I asked her about it and she said it never said that and deleted her txts. Suspicious about this i went through her phone one night and found an old chat where she was having txt sex with him (Before we were together) and also found txts to her ex saying she missed him and wanted him. I confronted her about it and she said she was trying to spare the exs feeling because she broke his heart. She then broke up with me for violating her privacy. We since got back together and she has stopped txting guys who arent actuall her friends and blocked her ex. Im still angry about the whole thing and drunkenly brought it up the other night and was mean to her about it which put us back on the rocks. Do you think its ok to be txting guys shes met once in her life? Is it ok to txt a guy she has previously been having txt sex with? Was i wrong to go through her phone? Should we try work it out? Any other observations or advice would be very welcome as i really dont know what to do, this is all new to me. Thanks Link to comment
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