21, Never Dated, Never had a girlfriend, virgin, and happy!!

[court7768]

I am also 21 never dated, never been kissed, virgin and extremely happy. I hope to some day find that special someone...but right now it feels good to be myself.

[MD Geist]

Iam also 22 and never dated and very happy with life.

[NametheGame]

It's good to be happy with yourself before getting into a relationship anyways, so that you don't "need" a partner, you just want one. Or not Funnily enough, being completely happy on your own makes you way more attractive and ready for a relationship than someone who thinks they need someone else to be happy.

[Iconate]

^^^ me too. I am semi like the OP as well. Never dated, never had sex, never really experienced all this stuff people/society says you "need" to experience.

 

And to be quite frank, watching relationships rise and fall apart, I really don't want any thing to do with it until the people I am around really mature.

[MD Geist]

You only feel like that because you don't know what you're missing =P

 

Once you've had someone to rely/be close to, it's hard to imagine not having it.

 

Its like that except the other way around.

[bmmg39]

There are people out there far older than you who have never dated or had any sort of romantic interaction. So don't let anyone let you feel weird or different.

 

Also remember that if you should fall in love with someone and begin dating him/her, don't feel pressure to kiss or have sex or anything else. Dating means different things to different people, and you shouldn't try to live by someone else's stupid "rules" about what you are "supposed" to have done by date one or date three or whatever.

[Organs]

Not that you should feel miserable if you're alone and/or inexperienced, but I don't think people should will themselves to be happy if they're alone and/or inexperienced.

 

We're human. There's a myriad of things that can depress people. And sometimes, people are just depressed because of a chemical imbalance in their brains. Somewhere there's a lawyer who has no idea how to continue defending his client now that he left an important case file on a bus or in a taxi. Somewhere in Minnesota there's a Vikings fan right now who's bitter about the Vikings losing to the Bears in overtime tonight. Somewhere there are geeks who are miserable about the low prospects of there ever being a Justice League movie.

 

Lack of a significant other can be depressing because people tend to value the company of other people. If we don't value it, then it's not going to bother us.

 

But if you're fine being on your own, have at it. Just remember you're only 21 and there's a LOT to experience in life. Such as credit card debt, late utility payments, cars breaking down right when you have to leave for work, and so on. And I'm not even getting into getting a job or losing one.

[barefootone]

I am 24, single, never had a boyfriend, never had sex and am happy! It's nice to see I'm not the only one! The only time I feel badly about it is when someone asks why I don't have a boyfriend. I really don't feel that I need one. I thinks it's human nature to need support and companionnship which is why I stay close to my family and have a good group of friends. If I meet someone who's really special I can start a relationship then but I really feel no need to date someone just for the sake of dating.

[sweetthang]

its nice to know that there are guys out there that dont have their mind on sex all the time! im a virgin and have never had sex, or a bf.. and im totally happy in that respect as well

[MD Geist]

^^^

Were are you women?!?.