SJ337Y Posted March 31, 2017 Share Posted March 31, 2017 Looking for advice So here is my situation.... My current boyfriend and I live in two different countries but only about an hour apart. He is in the US and I'm in Canada. It isn't really far its just inconvenient. He has a job in law enforcement in his state. I am currently working and going to school. I live with my parents still. I have a very good opportunity and should be making decent money in a few months. Double what he makes* We are both in our twenties and plan to move in with each other in a year or so. The only thing is- I'm the one he expects to move to the US. He won't even consider moving to Canada. With the US dollar being very high right now the Canadian dollar being low this means if I save up and move over there I'm losing 30% of my money along with my job, although he could support me and would I don't feel comfortable with that. We are for the most part very happy together but we only see each other every other weekend and the odd time during the week. I would have to change my whole life to live there and I definitely would. My problem is that I would like him to feel the same way and do anything to be with me- as I would him. I eventually would like to have my own family and Canada is a much safer country with a lot less crime. I feel very comfortable living here but it is a small town. For now it doesn't really matter and there isn't much I can do about our situation until I'm ready to move. We have lots of fun together and he is a very good person. I'm not really an attention seeking person and don't have many people to talk to about this thats why I feel like writing on here would be a good way to get some advise and opinions. I'm not really needy in relationships either but I just want to feel that the person I'm with cares about me so so so much. I need a lot of emotion from the person that I'm with and I feel like I just can't find that with someone. I've felt that way in my past relationship as well and he told me that nobody would ever be good enough for me.. Please feel free to comment and help me out, I appreciate it! Link to comment
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