TBKY Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been together 11 months, the last 5 months he changed it went from being crazy about me wanting to see me all the time and being amazing... to now being distant hot and cold and no effort whatsoever... he works horrible antisocial hours and getting into this relationship I was hesitant because of this... but then I fell for his charm and effort... he has now taken me completely for granted and it breaks my heart...I am not really a fighter but when I have afew drinks on me it all comes out the burried unhappiness.... Last Week I went over to his house drunk and he didn't let me in so I got very upset and told him I was done... the next day I was upset etc that he treated me like that and then we chatted about maybe going on a break because I couldn't do it anymore I only ever see him once a week if even and he never tells me when he's off and never makes plans to see me anymore... It was his birthday and I got him a cake had birthday presents etc and he ignored me all day and then I got this message... saying along the lines of... "I think ur amazing bla bla I just need some space and time and wanna maybe chat after this as I'm going through some things in my life and don't know what I want" .basicly a break up text and I was beyond heart broken he showed me such little respect. I havnt written back and the following night I got a " thinking of you message" it's now been 7 days of NC and I'm so hurt about everything and so confused... I'm so anoyed he hasn't even tried to call or show me the respect to meet up and end it if that's what it is...I don't know if he means space or a break up and it's killing me but regardless I don't think I could ever forgive him for this treatment...I am not going to contact him again untill he shows me the respect I deserve but at the same time in his head does he think this is just space or was that message a cop out break up??? Any thoughts? Link to comment
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