Babetears Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 Should you leave a relationship if you are not happy????? Link to comment
arwen Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 If you feel the reason you're unhappy is not easy to repair, or your partner won't change things to make things better, I'd say yes. If you need help on your personal situation, maybe it's better to give more details? Take care, Ilse. Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 I believe that if your unhappy, you should talk wiht you partner. Not good too just run away form your problems, unless you know its unfixable. Do you know why your not happy? Link to comment
Babetears Posted March 28, 2005 Author Share Posted March 28, 2005 it's not because he is not changing for me.. it's because i just don't feel the same way i feel for him before... he do everything for me... he try to change himself for me.. He started to ask me the question "Am i happy with him?" and i answer him "what do you think?" I guess he see that i am not happy lately...so that is why he ask me that... but ever since that conversation he haven't called me... so i've been thinking if i should leave this relationship or not??? i don't know if this is enough info or not... hopefully this will help... Link to comment
sonjam Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 well, if you love him, but you don't feel "in love " with him anymore, it is worth working on the relationship. To determine this you have to think what is this relationship worth to you, would it matter is you left the relationship or not? (to you). If you just simply fell out of love with him, and don't love him either, I don't see the point in staying in it.... Link to comment
Babetears Posted March 28, 2005 Author Share Posted March 28, 2005 that's the problem i feel that i don't love him anymore.. but yet i still have feelings for him... on the other hand i don't see a future with him.... as in i don't see us getting marry or what so ever... Link to comment
rvr350 Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 I'm sorry you feel that way towards your bf. Love takes a lot of hard work. Sometimes you feel like he's the man of your dream, the man you want to spend the rest of your life with, sometimes the exact opposite. Try to remember why you fall in love with him in the first place, and be honest with him, take it out in the open, let him know what you feel. Or better yet, write him a letter, let him read it. Hope it helped. Link to comment
lady00 Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 If you don't see a future, don't love him anymore...it's already over...now you have to tell him, that's the hard part. Link to comment
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