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  1. Babetears
    So what is consider a player???? so far everyone that reply back to my question consider what i did was just a flirt... ofcourse what i did was out of fun and jokes that's it... i didn't get naked... or take any money from my friend... ended up putting my shirt back on.... i wouldn't do it... if it was some random guy.... i only did it cause it was my friends.. and i know i can joke around with them... i wonder why steve would care since he is just a friend ... but he was the one who brought that situation up... so now i wonder too... i guess i wouldn't know why steve would care unless i ask him... anyway thanks again for all the reply....
  2. Babetears
    so it's only consider flirty??? well i kind of like this steve guy... but he doesn't like me... as long as i am single i can be flirty right... i didn't get to read what ghost69 wrote... but i assuming it's not nice since it got delete... and from what dizzydoris referring to his comment seems like ghost69 call me a whor... like dizzydoris said i had my clothes on... if i didn't have my clothes on it would be a different story... but i HAD MY CLOTHES ON..... And it was just friends messing around... anyway thanks for letting me know it's just flirting... not a player...
  3. Babetears
    Here i go with this question... does this really consider flirting or so call a player??? okae here goes the senery... i think i spell it wrong anyway... i met up with some friends at a club... i brought this friend name steve (name have been change) with me who doesn't know my other friends... then my other guys friends came along... was kidding around with me... like i would with them... i was asking my friend where's my beer... somehow we go into this conversation about stripping... my friend said if i would strip he would pay me... i had a jacket, a poloshirt and a tanktop on.... ofcourse my other friend didn't know that... so i took my jacket off and said where's my money and he said there's nothing to see yet... so i said if i am going to take my poloshirt off you would pay me right... he said yea... but what he didn't know is i have a tanktop under it... so i took off my poloshirt ofcourse he refuse to pay me cause i still have a tanktop on... whenever i see my guy friends i would give them a hug... so my friend steve finally told me that i am a player and a flirt ... if you don't know me... would you consider me a flirt or a player if you saw what happpen there???
  4. Babetears
    i really don't know.... im hoping that if i push myself away from him... he would realize that he wants to be with me... or that he will miss me... i guess i am taking a risk there too.. that i know i might loose him as a friend... im just hoping i can do it... and not call him or hang out with him when he call...
  5. Babetears
    Because I gave his friend a chance and things happen... so i guess i did the right thing by saying we shouldn't hang out or talk on the phone too much...
  6. Babetears
    Here goes the story... I met this guy from a friend... we became very good friend.... but i started to like him... he found out i was talking to one of his friend so he tell me to give his friend a chance... but i like him instead.... i gave his friend a chance but i realize that i don't like him... we talk on the phone a lot and when he is in town he would always call me up to hang out. i think he know i like him... i think he like me too.. but something happen ... so we are not together... and never will.. so what should i do... i told him i don't want to talk to him that much cause i don't want to be too attach to him.. he said what do i mean by that... i thought he would know when i say that... but i guess he didn't... and i told him i don't want to hang out that much with him... cause his brothers and sister in law is asking him what's going on with me and him... but he told them we're just friends... i have friends that ask me what's going on between us too... ofcourse i have to tell them we're just friends... cause that's what we are... did i do the right thing by saying i don't want to talk to him or hang out with him that much??? i don't want to say that to him... but i have no choice... the more i talk to him and hang out with him... the more i will like him... and the more i will get hurt... cause i know i will never be with him.... Tell me what i should do.... thanks...
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    I always want to be friends with my ex... or atleast i try to... but it's not going to work if they don't want to be friends... i guess i want to be friends cause i'm always the one who get broken up with... and i happen to be on both side before... when i was on your side i wanted to stay friends with the one who broke my heart... but ofcourse they never want to stay friends... so since this time im on the other side i wouldn't want my ex to go through what i went through trying to be friends... but it seems like it doesn't matter for me if i broke up with my ex or if he broke up with me...cause it seems like he doesn't want to be friend with me... so up to today i finally realize that it's not worth trying anymore... maybe it's better off this way... when we do see each other one day... we might be stranger to each other or we might just catch up... we'll never know... nobody knows what the future have plan for us... but atleast i know for now it's not worth getting angry, frustrated and wondering why... it's just not worth it... maybe when you leave it alone and when they think it's time they want to be your friend they will contact you in the future.... until then just enjoy life as it comes to you...
  8. Babetears
    deejay74, I understand how you feel... my situation is a little different from you... i'm actually on the other side of you... I was the one who broke up with my ex... its been a year since we broke up... i just want to be friends that's it... but seems like he doesn't want to... so i'm just going to stop trying once and for all... it's not worth going through all this pain just to try to be friends with your ex...
  9. Babetears
    The break happened before... but it only lasted 1 week... this time i don't know if i can go back to him... i just can't stand the things he put me though... it's not the first time that's why... this time he hurted me really bad.. and he realize it too... i really haven't seen him or really talk to him for over 2 week now... 1 week into the month but before that i haven't talk to him for 1 week.... eventhough he is acting like he is not missing me but he is constantly leaving me a voicemail with the song "all out of love"... he is constantly trying... but sometimes when he do that it gets me all mad.. i don't know why i feel that why... i don't know why when he doesn't call i feel that i miss him... but when he do leave me a message i feel like he is not giving me space... why do i feel like this... why do i get all mad at him when he is calling me or texting me.... i don't know....
  10. Babetears
    You are right i am confused... i don't know what i want... my hearts say i want to be with him.. but my mind is telling me i can't. sometimes i think we are better off being friend... but in my mind if i ask him to be friends i know he won't... i don't want us to end up as enemy.. cause i know that is what's going to happen if i break up with him.. i guess i can't have it all my way.... i really don't know what to do.. sometime i just want to be out of this area just to get away from this problem... run off and never come back.. and not let him know... but that's not a way to handle problem... i guess you are right when i am the one who wanted time off i shouldn't be calling him or anything... i know i did the wrong thing yesterday... i shouldn't text him... after i text him i realize that i made a mistake... i guess the best thing for me to do now is just go out with friends... and take my mind off of this situation... i don't know...
  11. Babetears
    1 week ago i ask my BF to give me 1 month off... he then can't help it and called me 4 days into the break... and then yesterday i text him to ask him where can i take my tire to fix... then he called back and tell me to give him the tire and he will bring it to fix i told him just tell me where and i will bring it... but he came and pick it up and brought it to fix and help me put the tire back on... the question is since im the one who suggested to take some time off... should i not have called him??? when i saw him yesterday he act like there is nothing between us... he acted like he didn't miss me at all... he acted like he is just helping a friend... Lately i've been having dreams of him... but he is not near me... everytime when he is close enough to me something will happen to either him or me... is that a sign??? or am i just thinking too much... one more question if i'm the one who suggested to take some time off, should i even ask him to go have lunch or something???? Please give me some advice... thanks..
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    He is 27 going to be 28. He keep telling me that i'm afraid of loosing you... i did tell him to take the month off to find himself... why is he doing this to me...and go out with his friends... he is just not listening... even his friends suggest to him for us to take time off cause we are having too much argument... but he did not listen to his friends.. he didnt want to listen to me too when i said to give me some time off...but he finally agree to it when he can't do anything... another thing is he want to marry me... but i don't see myself marrying him... he kinda proposed.. but i refused... maybe it's me... when a girl get proposed they should be happy and say yes... but i refused...i think he is moving too fast... i've only been with him for a little over 1 year.....i feel that i don't love him the way i used to any more... maybe it's because of the way he is acting and the attitude... oh well don't know what to do... so how are you and your GF now... you guys still together????
  13. Babetears
    FIIsion: I don't know i feel like i have the urge to end the relationship.. but maybe because he is not giving me time... and plus he is the jealous type too... i did talk to him.. but he is not hearing me out... seems like he want me to do what he want but not what i want... so i had enough of what he want.. and think about what i want... and what i really want right now is some time to understand more about myself.... but i can't do that with him callin me all the time... Djedix: i understand what you are trying to say... but the question is not because i haven't told him.. i did tell him.... but he is not hearing me out... he is not putting my words into consideration... he just want what he want... yea he is so afraid of loosing me... and that is what's going to happen if he doesn't stop the clingy... i do miss him sometime... but he always tell me he misses me... makes me thinks if he really does or not.. just like he always tell me he loves me... but makes me think if he does or not... from what i think the more you say you love someone doesn't mean you really love them... "I love you" is a special word... if you says it too much it's not special no more... Ontario: yea i know... i feel what you saying "if he respects you, he'll understand" but i guess he is not.. since he is always calling and not letting me have my own time... when you say you always say sorry that is how he is too... always saying sorry to me... i really don't know what i should do to get to him... about everything... maybe if i suggest him to come on here and read about advice people write down here maybe he will understand what i am going through... i don't know... and if i do, i don't know how to get him to get on here... any advice on that??? THanks guys...
  14. Babetears
    My bf and i had a talk on wednesday night (july 27th) about our relationship. i told him i can not stand it no more.. that he doesn't trust me and always wanted me to spend time with him... and what he is putting me through.... i told him i don't want to continue with this relationship... but he kept telling me to give him a third chance... sometimes i think he is not listening to me crying out that i need space and time for myself... so finally i end up telling him to give me one month of time to myself..... at first he did not want to but he finally gave up and agree to it.... but yesterday he saw me and told me he misses me a lot and he told me he is leaving... i was thinking what.. where is he leaving to.. but then he said he is going to the phillipines.... for 1 week only... and then later during the night he called me again and said he misses me.. and he try... and he is trying so hard not to call me at all but he can't stand it no more...but when he called me it make me feel more mad at him.. because he agree to give me one month but he is starting to call me again... i try to be nice but i don't know what to do when i just want to be alone for a period of time... i think maybe because he is pushing me to the limit that i can't stand it no more.... hope someone can give me some advice.. i really don't know what i am trying to say here.... please give me some advice...
  15. Babetears
    i have to agree with djedix.. space is what my b/f is not giving me.. he's making me feel like i have to constantly check in with him.. call him when i'm going to work, call him when i get off from work, let him know who i am with... i don't like that... it's driving me crazy.. it's making me not wanting to stay with him.. because he want to be with me all the time i feel like i don't even get to hang out with my friends no more.. even when i am hanging out with my friends he would tag along... he's not giving me much time to hangout with my family too... last night i just told him to give me a month off... i just can't stand it anymore.. i don't know what's going to happen after a month.. but so far giving each other space is a must... without space in a relationship is asking for a break up..
  16. Babetears
    i borke up with him because he is possesive....and doesn't give me time to spend with my family... he is always wanting me to be by his side whenever he want me... but i can't do that all the time... i need time to spend with my family too... i don't know....
  17. Babetears
    because i still love him when i broke up with him...
  18. Babetears
    the problem here is mainly my fault... i broke up with my ex 6 days ago.. and i realize that i still love him.. i hurted him really bad... but now i want to get back with him.. i don't think he want to though.. i don't know... is there any tips or advice anyone can give me... all i think about is him.. and the stuff we done together... he even go to the doctor, dentist appointments with me.. now i have a dentist appointment tomorrow... knowing the fact that he is not going to be there with me is hurting so bad... i really don't know what i should do... I try contacting him but he never called back or write back... im running out of ideas...please help...
  19. Babetears
    that's the problem i feel that i don't love him anymore.. but yet i still have feelings for him... on the other hand i don't see a future with him.... as in i don't see us getting marry or what so ever...
  20. Babetears
    it's not because he is not changing for me.. it's because i just don't feel the same way i feel for him before... he do everything for me... he try to change himself for me.. He started to ask me the question "Am i happy with him?" and i answer him "what do you think?" I guess he see that i am not happy lately...so that is why he ask me that... but ever since that conversation he haven't called me... so i've been thinking if i should leave this relationship or not??? i don't know if this is enough info or not... hopefully this will help...
  21. Babetears
    Should you leave a relationship if you are not happy?????
  22. Babetears
    my ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago... i just message him right now.. wondering how he is doing... and ask him some question...i ask him.. does it feel weird for him to see me.. then he said a little.. and then i ask why?? he said "it just feel strange"... so i ask him "you never been friends with ur ex" and he said "Nope" .. i ask him.. what about messaging and calling, does it feels weird... he said, nope.... what should i do... i want to stay friends with him.. but i don't think it's a good idea... im still trying to heal after almost 2 months.. and i misses him a lot.... i try to not contact him that much.. but i am always the one who initiates the contact... i can't help it... i really want to move on.. but i don't know how can i... if i keep contacting him... can someone please give me some advice...thanks...
  23. Babetears
    yea i guess that's all we can do now....is to be happy... but i don't seems to be able to be happy... i have no friends to go out with... on my days off i am home all the time.. even if i want to go out... i feel like i rather be at work then to be home... but when i am at work i want to be home... just like tonite i want to go out so badly... but i have no one to go with... so i am stuck at home... YEah i like that quote too... i wish my ex will feel the same way too... but it doesn't seems like it... since we are not together no more... i guess i hate staying home because whenever i am home all i think about is him... anyway thanks and hope everything goes well for you...
  24. Babetears
    i guess i don't know if i want to get over him right now... part of me want to forget him and move on.. and part of me doesn't... just cause of what he said and that gave me hope... i am so confuse of what i want to do.. i guess i will just contact him once in a while... like once a month or something... thanks...
  25. Babetears
    i don't think i want to ask him again...cause i think it will bug him if i ask him again... i guess i will just let it be for now.. until later on as in when time passes ...and if i still want to know then i will ask him..but for now i will not ask him... so did i made a mistake by getting in contact with him.. or i did not??? should i just stick with the no-contact for now??? until i am truly over him??? can you give me advice on that??? thanks...
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