On the rebound?

[atomic40]

My girlfriend of almost two years broke up with me about 2 months ago. She is 21 and I am 23. Towards the end, things were going badly and we argued alot. When she broke it off, she said that she needed space and did not want a relationship anymore. About two weeks after, I saw her kissing another guy. I know this guy a little bit and we had hung out with him while we were together. I just could not believe that she could be with someone so quickly. When I confrotned them about it she said that she was on the rebound...right in front of him. She also said that she was drunk. We have had arguments since we have been broken up because I call her. I finally realized a couple of weeks ago that I should not call her. Once I stopped calling, I got a call from her about a week and a half later. She had a lame excuse for calling and then talked to me for thirty minutes. She said that she missed my family, thought about me, still had feelings for me, and could not stand the thought of me being with someone else. She did not mention getting back together but I feel that she may bring that up in the future. Any thought are welcome and appreciated. Ryan

[BazookaMike]

I think she doesn't know what she wants. You want her back huh? I think she needs more time. You've known her for two years, try to figure her out what she "really" wants. I think she needs others to make her feel important. If you give in now she might just turn around in another two months. Then you'd still be at the same spot you're in now. Get in her head, don't ask her but try to find out why she broke up with you in the first place then change it. They try to send signals that guys don't always pick-up on.

[kinatra]

Gotta go with Bazzokajoe or mike on this one...he's right! Da gal don't know what she wants!!! Hey your gonna do what your gonna do...but be careful.. Basically you could get back together and have some love'n which may be nice for a little while, but you may be back where you started - on the other end of her tell you she needs space. On the otherhand you could tell her you need time and she needs time. Who knows, maybe you'll meet the women of your dreams during this time off...?

 

Good luck