what keeps you motivated to go for another day?

[Wolfshook]

Please, share here what keeps you motivated when you miss your ex and feel bad about breakup.

 

For me, it is movie swingers and this is what I just discovered (watch it despite the title):

[DancingFool]

oh lol that was hilarious! Thanks for sharing.

[Pixels]

Well, it's not like you have much choice... You either deal with it, become "that creep", or nose-dive your life into a spiral.

 

Writing your thoughts pen on paper can help ground yourself and organize yourself towards a goal/direction you want to move towards.

 

Otherwise, some days just suck, that's just life in general though.

[Playing nice]

Put one foot in front of the other paint on a smile take deep breaths and do it

I was missing my ex so badly a few weeks ago I had many days that I had to do the above I looked for my inner strength and found it!!!! You will get past this x

[Zuri]

I hated Swingers. I watched it after a bu. But that video was spot on! Thanks for sharing.

[ParisPaulette]

For me it was two songs I played until I could tell you every.single.lyric like I wrote them--Never Again by Kelly Clark AND God Bless You by Black Veil Brides.

 

I played one or the other, often back to back when the tears were flowing over my last ex, the one who did a serious number on my head for a time.

 

And then yes, journaling. Going to the dojo and kicking the snot out of the human shaped punching bags didn't hurt either.

[Kazuya]

I watched Swingers and it taught me a thing or two.

 

Other than the idea of her smiling on every failure I might face while she accomplished what she ever wanted keeps the motivation in check.

[Matti Jr]

I enjoyed that video.

 

For me it's getting my life back on track and finding a new job because working with an ex you still have feelings for and the person she left you for sucks.

[Wolfshook]

I enjoyed that video.

 

For me it's getting my life back on track and finding a new job because working with an ex you still have feelings for and the person she left you for sucks.

Untill she calls you one night but you cant (and dont want to)answer because you are "busy"

[BeHeard]

- exercise

- countless movies and series to get lost in

- Adele's "Send my love to your new lover" song

- Fresh air, lots of it

- Sunshine, lots of it

- Restructuring personal goals and a plan to achieve them

[jennylove]

No social media stalking. None.