De Tourvel Posted March 4, 2005 Share Posted March 4, 2005 Hey guys, well, I have been having sex with my boyfriend for like foreva, such as doing it against the wall, the bed, the floor, the car, and vice versa, (plus different positions of the kama sutra whateva), but somehow I can't enjoy sex. I know I wanted to have sex when I lost my virginity because I was really warm down their, but I still get aroused (alot!!) even though I'm not a virgin anymore.(Yes, my boyfriend and I have sex three times a day, good sex for him, but not to me). The problem is, sex just hurts for me. I know it does not hurt my boyfriend because his male organ is like wrapped in skin, and my vagina isn't. My question is does sex feels good only to men, and it hurts more for women? The penis (can I say penis here) is like wrapped in skin...and the vagina is like a blister to me, so when he penetrates me... it just hurt. Can anyone help? Yes I already went to see the doctor, but he sees no problems which means I'm ok. Help... Link to comment
kalshane Posted March 4, 2005 Share Posted March 4, 2005 Maybe it hurts because you're not quite ready when you two are having intercourse. Are you moist or wet, or are you dry when he begins? Maybe the two of you should take more time with foreplay before the actual main event starts. There are a variety of things he can do to make sex better. Oral sex or manual stimulation often work wonders with females who have a hard time enjoying intercourse. Maybe he should try alternating between giving you oral and penetration, this usually works with guys that don't last long or with women who find it difficult to climax. Link to comment
DN Posted March 4, 2005 Share Posted March 4, 2005 you could also try using a lubricant link removed link removed Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 4, 2005 Share Posted March 4, 2005 Maybe it's too big? lol, that was both serious and funny btw. I've heard girls don't like it when its too big. Link to comment
Vacuum Posted March 4, 2005 Share Posted March 4, 2005 "can i say penis in here?" why not? with a question like that it leads me to suspect that maybe it was the programming that the people who raised you implanted in your brain since you were a baby that has made you fearful of sex. just a thought. penis,penis,penis,penis,penis,scrotum Link to comment
I_love_rain_hugs_and_you Posted March 4, 2005 Share Posted March 4, 2005 Sex three times a day? That is extreme!!! Maybe thats why you hurt. Try doing it less often...just a suggestion. Link to comment
Turboz Posted March 4, 2005 Share Posted March 4, 2005 Sex three times a day? That is extreme!!! Maybe thats why you hurt. Try doing it less often...just a suggestion. Rubbish - Me and my girl have doneit 5 times a day in the past and she's only ever said good things about it (though she is 20 - perhaps older than the starter of this thread). Remember though, Everyone IS different! -Turboz Link to comment
De Tourvel Posted March 5, 2005 Author Share Posted March 5, 2005 honestly, I prefer masturbating than sex. I dunno, I do get wet down there, and I am REALLY in the mood for sex always. Although their are times I wish I'm a guy because when my boyfriend comes(or ejaculate), he said the feeling is really good...but then again its messy, so being a woman is still good. I dunno, probably that is why porn star actress screams when a guy is penetrating her, because sex just hurts, but then again it could mean something else. I tried lubricant, but it still feels like a blister, but I guess sex just doesn't work for me only masturbating. Link to comment
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