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I need on relationship advice on what to do.. because i am not understanding my boyfriend. I would like to know your opinion and what you would personally do.

 

 

I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We both met through a chat app and fell in love with one another. He lives two hours away from me and therefore came all the way from there to my college which is hrs far

 

 

We both saved each others number on our contact..before meeting up in real life. When i was saving his number to my contact, ive added emojis on his name and then he did the same to me, this was five months ago and now its 1st may. We been together for 5 months

 

 

On 29th april i have noticed he removed the emojis from my name and he has shortened it, i was very upset about that and have asked him. He replied to me saying it must've been error and that nobody in his contact has emojis not even his mother and that was true what he said about nobody having emojis. I dont understand why he put emojis in my name in the first place then, but i decided not to say anything. I have told him i loved him and he said he loved me more.

 

 

I have noticed that he isn't talking to me much in texts. . Because he used to message me all the time and now we do talk everyday but he hardly replies. I have asked him why he doesnt reply to me much, then he said he is busy with driving lessons and college coursework.

 

 

I know i have probably wronged, but i created a fake instagram to stalk him and ive realised he's liking so many girls pics like different girls pic. There is this one girl who posted a pic of her belly and he liked it but he doesnt comment on any pics, but he liked almost every pic of that girls. He mostly likes girls pics but doesn't comment.

 

 

I am feeling really frustrated, i don't know if im overreacting. Please can you help me. Im not sure if hes losing interest on me or anything but Please do advice me

 

He has also told me that he wants to get off social media.. i know shouldnt doubt this but i don'tknow how i should feel or react. He told he feels lazy and isnt going to message too much as he is tired of being with his phone all the time.. but i don't understand why he replied late to my older messages.

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After a few months the thrill and novelty fades. it sounds like he's getting a little bored of texting and being in a LDR. Are you exclusive? Creeping him on social media sounds like you are trying to find reasons why he's tired of texting all the time.

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