notavictim87 Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 Hello, I'm new to this forum and just wanted to ask a question, obviously I was considering getting back with the father of my child. Probably not now though because he told me that he wasn't into manogomy anymore and that he just wanted to feel free to explore his feelings with other women. To me it just sounds like he wants to be single, I understand that in the beginning but he just isn't open to it at all. To me this just sounds like he is uncertain and wants to keep his options open. For me I think it's a no go at this point but this is what guys mean by this right or is there something else I'm not getting? Link to comment
James55 Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 Stay away from him; he probably wants to be able to hold you in reserve while he sleeps around, knowing that he has the safety of you there to fall back on should it not work out for him, and though I don't know you, I'd say you deserve better than that. Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 I'm not a guy but my opinion is he's not interested in you and your child, he wants to date and have sex with whoever he wants and when he wants. Stay away from him and find a better guy. Link to comment
notavictim87 Posted April 25, 2016 Author Share Posted April 25, 2016 Thanks James for the clarity and the compliment. I would say I do deserve better, I was just wondering if there was something that I am missing some new fad. Plenty of fish in the sea that are willing to be exclusive is what I told him. I was hoping to be a family, he is at least a good Dad but I don't want to waste my time on something that won't last. Link to comment
notavictim87 Posted April 25, 2016 Author Share Posted April 25, 2016 Whoops that was in reverse, you aren't James but you are absolutely right. I asked him what he wanted and he said that he wanted to travel a lot, and move around a lot... some other jazz. That's no stable life for a child. Anyway, he's a good Dad and I hope things stay that way. He is going to wake up one day and realize that he made a mistake and I will probably be married or with someone else. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 It sounds like he wants to keep you in the picture for sex and so he threw that out there to see if you would bite. There is no future with this guy so please put taking him back or even wasting one more thought on him out of your mind. Lost Link to comment
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