Jeffie Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 Today I stopped by my gfs house before I went to work. we ended up making out on her bed. We then started levi-lovin' we have done this before nothing new. but this time i guess I got a little more into it, and ended up having an orgasm, imediatly after i got up said that I had to go (i was already a few min late) and was making every effort not to let her see the wet mark on my pants. I'm sure she knew I was acting weird I started heading out of her room without my key and shoes. she had to remind me to get them. Do I pretend this didnt happen? or explain why I was acting the way I was? she hasnt brought anything up....but I kind of feel the need to tell her, I'm just afraid of how she will take it. Thanks for the advice Link to comment
DN Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 Sperm is very persistent and if she was also very wet and your sperm got through the clothes there is a chance she may get pregnant. There are plenty of cases where there was no penis/vaginal entry and pregnancy resulted but sperm can still enter if it gets close enough. If you think there is a risk then you should tell her.. now. Link to comment
Jeffie Posted February 4, 2005 Author Share Posted February 4, 2005 I very highly doubt that because I was straddling her leg, and once I started to orgasm I moved, and sat up. Link to comment
No-Fear Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 Dude i think you might be in trouble like DN said. Dude you to 2 better be old enough to handle what can happen. And Hell yeah you should tell her, it can happen. I think orgasms are very mental. And if she is mature enough she will understand. Link to comment
Jeffie Posted February 4, 2005 Author Share Posted February 4, 2005 Dude you to 2 better be old enough to handle what can happen. Physically I am probably old enough, but mentaly I am not. I honestly never thought that bumping and grinding would bring me to orgasm. Link to comment
DN Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 ok, then now you have to decide what to do. What are the reasons for telling her. What are the reasons for not telling her. Work it out from there. Link to comment
Jeffie Posted February 4, 2005 Author Share Posted February 4, 2005 just to let you all know, Im not trying to fight responsibility and blow it off, 1 I am emberaased that it happened, and 2, I am scared (now) of what possibly could happen. I will tell her Link to comment
QTpie87 Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 may i ask how old you are? Link to comment
Jeffie Posted February 4, 2005 Author Share Posted February 4, 2005 im 19 and she is 18 Link to comment
QTpie87 Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 well thats better then if you were like 14 or something, you know. i mean that might freak someone that age out a little , but at 18 she should know about the human body and realize you have feelings for her and it was bound to happen sometime. i can understand you side of it, being embarrassed and all, if it was the first time it happened with her then it's something new and something that you wont be totally comfrotable with at first. if you feel like you should tell her then go ahead and do it, let her know you are a little shy about it so she will understand. she might be a little shy about it too, expecailly the first she has an orgasm. i know i was, but you get over it pretty fast. good luck. love Qtpie87 Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 WHY don't you want to tell her? Are you embarrassed? Do you think it'll scare her off? In reality, she'll probably get a kick out of it! It makes most girls feel good, knowing that they can please their man. And this situation is even better because you weren't even ACTUALLY having sex! Why not tell her? Link to comment
Jimbo10 Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 I don't understand, she'd probably be like, "damn I'm good" if you said that she brought you to orgasm. I mean, she wouldn't be mad, she'd probably be happy, or at least think it was cute! I think you should totally tell her Good luck, JImbo Link to comment
DN Posted February 4, 2005 Share Posted February 4, 2005 plus if she can get you off doing that, think what it will be like when/if you do it for real. Please give us some warning beforehand so we can cover our ears. Link to comment
Jeffie Posted February 4, 2005 Author Share Posted February 4, 2005 plus if she can get you off doing that, think what it will be like when/if you do it for real. Please give us some warning beforehand so we can cover our ears. hahaha! I told, her, yes I didnt want to tell her because I was embarrassed (sp?) went a lot better than I had expected. Thanks everyone for the help (and the scare at the beginning: ) Link to comment
Tsunami Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Just talk to her about it, she more than likely notcied, i would have! Any way, there IS a slight risk and it's better to go through the slight bit of embarrassment so that she is safe any way, she shouldn't think any different you, just talk to her, maybe make a bit of a joke about it.. Link to comment
Tsunami Posted February 5, 2005 Share Posted February 5, 2005 Ha, sorry, didn't see your last post *goes red* well done? lol Link to comment
Dubzuk Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 i think that u should tell her, i really dont think she will think bad of u for it, u cant help that u were that turned on, i think she will be fine. Link to comment
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