Went out on one date, had coffee 2 days later, hav'nt heard from her in 3 days

[radiohead20]

Went on a date with a girl that works in my building. She is leaving the company in a week so I did not feel any reservations about asking her out. We had a few things in common and she is absolutely beautiful so I said "why the hell not", she said yes. We went out to dinner and got drinks afterwards, staying until 1:30am at night. Made out at the bar etc.

 

She mentions she wants to get lunch sometime. We met up for coffee 2 days later, we message each other a few times a day in between. things seem fine. I can't believe this is happening since I am at most an average looking guy that dresses well, and she is far above my league in a physical sense. Anyways, she has a weekend trip on Fri-Sun with friends.

I hadn't heard from her on Sunday so I texted her on monday morning and I still havn't heart from her 9 hours later.

 

Do you think she is losing interest? I havn't heardafrom her for 3 days now.

[mhowe]

She was away for the weekend and is likely busy getting ready for the week and a new job.

[radiohead20]

She was away for the weekend and is likely busy getting ready for the week and a new job.

 

no new job lined up yet.

[mhowe]

Still...she has been on a few dates with you. She isn't in a relationship and she may be just caught up in her own life. She knows how to reach you. Chill.

[radiohead20]

Still...she has been on a few dates with you. She isn't in a relationship and she may be just caught up in her own life. She knows how to reach you. Chill.

 

 

Does the fact that she is 26 an is attached to her smartphone change your mind?

[mhowe]

Not in the least. She saw your text. She is under no obligation to return it on your timeframe.

[radiohead20]

Not in the least. She saw your text. She is under no obligation to return it on your timeframe.

 

Completely agree. but if she was interested in me she would have responded after seeing it.

[mhowe]

Possibly not. If it was a request to hang out...or something that didn't need an immediate answer, she may be waiting to see how her week is setting up.

[radiohead20]

Possibly not. If it was a request to hang out...or something that didn't need an immediate answer, she may be waiting to see how her week is setting up.

 

It wasnt. It was just a side comment.

[mhowe]

Then there was no need to respond to it...and she didn't.

[1Love1]

I'd wait a a couple more days. If she STILL hasn't responded then you pretty much have your answer - and you didn't have to come accross as clingy (for lack of a better word) to get it

[Asb682]

Is it possible she didn't get your text?

[Someday_Soon]

Sorry to say, but pretty girls rarely go "away for the weekend" without attracting attention. Especially in today's world. Everywhere she goes guys are hitting on her like it's nobody's business. I'm going to predict she won't return to you in the same capacity as she departed. Hope I'm wrong though.