Two years on four dating sites and no luck at all.

[luxurylover]

 

I understand that women get tons of messages, but I honestly feel that you not only have no right complaining about not finding a decent guy but also have no right to be on a dating site if you don't respond to all messages that show genuine interest.

 

first, I get what you're saying. there is so much crap on those sites u have to sift thru to find a decent date. also some of them (ive heard from guys) are bots or spammers).

 

second, about the quote I included above, I don't know about other women but when ive posted personal ads the amount of responses I get from guys is so overwhelming it would literally take me hours to go thru and reply to each person showing interest. I feel like the amount of real (non spam/bot and actually serious about looking) women on those sites is so much lower than the amount of men that this is naturally going to happen. I wouldn't take it as something being wrong w/ you or ur ad.

[HeartGoesOn]

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