had the first date, too soon for the second?

[wanderer]

i haven't been here for a while. anyway, here's my situation:

 

last saturday i went out with a girl that i had met a few weeks prior (we were hooked up by mutual friends). long story short, the date went really well in my opinion; we we're actually out for about 6 or 7 hours, got dinner and saw a movie, and just hung out and talked. there weren't any awkward silences or anything like that throughout the whole date. i'd like to ask her out again soon. the trouble is, she's sort of shy when it comes to dating, so she doesn't flirt, and without that i have a hard time figuring out if she likes me as much i liker her. i'm pretty sure i'm the first guy who's ever asked her out, or at the very least the first actual date she's been on, based on what she told me (she had one "boyfriend" for a few weeks but it was at a summer camp)

 

also, this weekend my friends (who are a couple) want to go on a double date with me and the girl i went out with 3 days ago. i'd like to go out with her again, certaintly, but i feel like asking her out two weekends in a row might come off as needy or something like that and might make her think i'm desperate or something. am i just being paranoid? what do you guys think? thanks in advance for any advice.

[-Perplexed-]

Go out with them.

[DivineNess]

go aead and ask her out again for this weekend. if she likes you she will be glad you did.

[jabean]

Ask her out again. It's the only way to develop interest. Don't want until the night before the date though. She may have plans. Call her.

[Day_Walker]

If you have only been on one date with this girl and she is shy why would it be a good idea to go out on a double date? If you want to hang out with her more then make it informal, just chill with her as if she was a friend and see how she acts towards you.

[Cecelius]

I agree that that is too much of a couples date for your second date. Plus, you haven't really established any rapport with her -- you need to continue to be alone with her