nikkiagerba Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 If any girls or guys knows way to make a guy jealous . write back.give advice. Link to comment
Ceema-k Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 How to make a guy jealous? This one's easy: You Don't. Link to comment
RayKay Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 If any girls or guys knows way to make a guy jealous . write back.give advice. Why would you want to? Trying to make someone jealous is rather immature in my opinion and will just end up making you look like the bad person. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 the idea is pretty simple BUT in order for a guy to be jealous it means that he has to like you/want to be with you or something else along those lines. The basic idea is puttin him in situations where he cant have you or he doesnt have access to you. Link to comment
MetalJoe Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 Why do you want to make a guy jealous? Link to comment
anotherone Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 well, I think You can flirt with other guys infront of him or sayt hnigs like guys "'''???". I do not want to teach you what to say..But you know what I mean. However, It depends how he reacts to the situation. He may think that it is ok to see other people while dating you or may confront you for saying or doing stufff like that..I am assuming you are seeing this guy. I usually do not react right away.. I just observe and keep it to myself. It only tells me that this Girls is not into me a 100%... LET ME MOVE ON FIRST. Link to comment
youngin Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 ha a girl trying to make me jealous would just make me think shes a b!tch. Then i lose interest completely Link to comment
nikkiagerba Posted January 10, 2005 Author Share Posted January 10, 2005 well i do like this guy and he does have interest in me, i kno this from him makinout,and doin other stuff with me many times. Also, even after things have changed, a couple months later he was flirtin and gettin really close to me. but , He used to always get jealous of other guys saying their talking to me, but they really weren't. he had a hard time trusting me, cuz alot of guys liked me. But , I want to make him jealous, but not too much. Just a lilttle.. I just want to show him he can't have me all the time. He' expects for me to be in love with him, and show all this attention to him. He's an attentin pig. And everytime i made the first movee... Link to comment
DragonGirl724 Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 well nikki, the best thing for you to do then, in reference to your last reply, is to just go about life. dont make him play any special role in it. do u want a relationship w/ him? bc if so this jealousy game isnt cool. & itll mess up whatever relationship thatll come from this infactuation. but overall this does sound immature. dont hurt a guys feelings for no reason. dont rub things in his face, he may be a great guy & youre diliberatly hurting him. thats not very attractive. maybe he just really likes you & he really gets hurt knowing other guys want you...think this over. it doesnt sound like the right thing to do. mind games are immature, unnecessary & unreasonable. how would you feel if he was doing this to you? -DG724 Link to comment
Gauchori Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 He's an attentin pig? For not being gay? I think that guy needs some help in getting some real women.... Link to comment
DragonGirl724 Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 He's an attentin pig? For not being gay? I think that guy needs some help in getting some real women.... say what say huh? am i the only one confused by this reply? lol -DG724 Link to comment
Ceema-k Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 This is an advice forum, so my advice to you was to not incite your bf's jealousy. If you dont want him to act like a jealous dolt, why egg him on by intentionally making him more jealous? Not only that, but you may also cause him anger, confusion, resentment and a raftload of other negative emotions. When youre both in a good mood, why don't you sit down and talk things over? Link to comment
69_king Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 sounds like he's jealous already! Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 If he already has trouble trusting you, playing childish jealousy games aren't going to do anything to help out that situation. Link to comment
Jimbo10 Posted January 11, 2005 Share Posted January 11, 2005 I don't get it. You sound to me like your just being cruel! If you don't want to give your attention to him, why don't you just tell him gently your not interested. You don't need to waist your time trying to hurt someone, just to let him know that he doesn't get you, that's sick, and it disgusts me as a man I think your a mean person even asking how. Sorry for the bitterness, but don't come on this site to ask how to hurt someone Link to comment
nikkiagerba Posted January 11, 2005 Author Share Posted January 11, 2005 first of all..the only reason i'm even pondering over this is because i got hurt. He did this to me with another girl . I just wondered wht everyone thought. He is not my bf, just a guy i really like. I just wanted something to happened again between us. Thats' all so thanx for the threats and everythign else. I thought you guys were here to give advice to me , not to yell and bicker at me. You just made my night... Link to comment
Jimbo10 Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 Your 18? By your age, you should be well aware, jealosy is a kids game to get the boy/girl you like. Try growing up, and having an intelligent conversation with him! Link to comment
Gauchori Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 I agree with Jimbo10 100%... and by the way... we people give advice to people who are trying to do the right things and trully need help for something important... Link to comment
nikkiagerba Posted January 12, 2005 Author Share Posted January 12, 2005 if jealousy isn't an part of life it wouldn't be in this category.........many other people think thease things and ask for advice for it in this section. If you didn't feel the need to answere because it wasn't important, then maybe you shouldn't. Link to comment
PrincessLinzay Posted January 12, 2005 Share Posted January 12, 2005 Whether anyone likes to admit it or not, jealousy is a part of life. With boyfriends/girlfriends, friends, family, even strangers. People try to make people jealous all the time. Even psychologists will tell you that a healthy amount of jealousy is actually a good thing. Jealousy can come about both intentionally and unintentionally. Women and men alike find it endearing and kind of sweet when their boyfriend/girlfriend is a little jealous, whether it's from attention they received, or something said inadvertently. I think I would be a little more concerned if my boyfriend never got jealous. Of course, there is a point when the line can be crossed. I don't think the question was stupid at all, and Im not really digging the fact that some of you are judging and making personal attacks on her for asking. The purpose of this particular forum is JEALOUSY and no one else gets to decide what questions do or do not have merit. It was question people, nothing more, nothing less. Constructive advice is more helpful. That said, ~nikkiagerba~ If you're interested in this guy, the BEST way to approach it would be to confront him directly. He may or may not have been trying to make you jealous with this other girl, but he apparently did. Why not tell him that you were a little jealous? Maybe he'll respond better to the truth. Guys can be a little complex at times. Although most boyfriends will get a little jealous when someone's paying too much attention to their girlfriends, when you aren't together, it can actually be a turn off to see you messing with another guy. If other guys are paying attention to you anyways, he's probably already a little jealous, without you're having to do anything. That's just my 2 cents. Hope everything works out for you. Link to comment
Stefanie Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 Sorry...Girl...But I say this...I Hope there will come a day you love somebody so badly...And that he makes you jealous...really you ain't only immature but you've got a BAD caracter...I hope you will get a lot of hurt in your coming live...Then you will know the answer of your STUPID question...I hope you Suffer.... Link to comment
SummerBreez Posted February 16, 2005 Share Posted February 16, 2005 In a real relationship, jealousy will only kill your love for each other and break down the relationship. If you are trying to pay him back, remember two wrongs don't make a right. Jealousy is a weak emotion that will get you no where. Been there, done that.... Link to comment
LifePak Posted February 17, 2005 Share Posted February 17, 2005 Hmm... I think you should first make an impression on him. You have to realize that he needs to care first before you can achieve jealousy. He first needs to weight you as somewhat of a special friend before you can achieve something like that. It usually doesn't go the other way where you make him jealous and then he care about you. It has influence only if he weight you as a person whom he has romantic interest in. If he doesn't, it's impossible. Link to comment
Mike_Wazowski Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 jealousy is an evil emotion......A hurting emotion...why would you intentionally want to inflict pain on someone you care about!?? You do that intentionally his happiness for wanting to be with you will disappear and he'll find another.......think about that! Link to comment
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