Desired1 Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 Ok To guys: What is the one thing that a girl can do or say to turn you on??? To girls: what is the one thing that (from your experience) you have done or said to a guy that really turns him on??? Just out of curiosity. Thanx for taking time to answer Desi Link to comment
Random Hero Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 For me, body language speaks much louder than words. Her eyes can often say a lot, and it's not always what you say but how you say it. Link to comment
boredguy Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 I agree with Random Hero, body language is way more important, and sometimes words kinda kill it. its about the proximity of bodies, the heat, the eye contact, the warm breath. all of that and more. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 Nothing is more powerful than three very simple words that carry so much meaning... I love you. What's even better is when no words need to be said. When you can just look into each other's eyes and see all the love, hope, and understanding reflected back at you. The ultimate point is when you can say, "you say it best when you say nothing at all." Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 The words I LOVE YOU are the most overrated and overabused words you will find. I say conentrate on her body language, her tone of voice, and her eyes first especially while she is saying it. Turn ons for guys? Frankly I like shy girls because for some reason they appear as cute when they start to open up to you. There are many but I just woke up and all so my brain isn't exactly working correctly right now... Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 Let me clarify. "I love you" is special when you are in a commited relationship and you can feel the honesty and emotion behind it. It can be overused to the point where it doesn't mean anything at all, in that case the people saying don't really understand what it means. But under the right circumstances and when both parties really mean it, "I love you" can be magical and a really big turn on. Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 LOL sorry, but I believe the quote on my post. "Love is not magical." It is a great feeling and all but the words "I LOVE YOU" can be used as the most lethal and dangerous weapon. It is so abused and overused sometimes you still cannot help but wonder what is really going on in the mind of the person that said it. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 9, 2005 Share Posted January 9, 2005 Sorry that you feel so jaded like that. Yes, love can be used as a weapon. I've seen it happen. But when you open your heart and really find that one special and lasting love, it is special and magical. You won't understand until you feel it yourself. Then you'll be a believer. Link to comment
Desired1 Posted January 10, 2005 Author Share Posted January 10, 2005 Hey, For those who answered--thanx. If you didn't, please do and thanx in advance for reading. Oh... can we please stay on topic as to what are turn-ons for guys. If you have any more suggestions, write as much as possible. Thanx -Desi Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 I'm sorry Desired...I apologize. Um...well a girl's clothes can really grab our attention really quick. Alot of guys like short skirts and clevage and whatnot. Certain shoes attract guys as well. But what I LOVE is a girl with long hair, that is a big turn on. Girls with glasses are also very attractive in my opinion. I also love a girl that smells good. There are a ton of things that can turn on a guy, those are just a few. Link to comment
MetalJoe Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 It's got to be a good smile for me. Link to comment
Princess 01 Posted January 10, 2005 Share Posted January 10, 2005 Outlaws I agree with you. The way she smiles, dresses,walks,talks,smell and most of all her attitude. A woman has got to feel sexy and let her charm take control BUT it can also be quite dangerous to both parties concerned. From being a woman I feel that most things about a woman attract attention from a man especially if shes HOT. December 2004 I went out almost every night and I have noticed that guys will do everything/anything in their power to attract a womans attention, if all else fails they just simply walk up to the woman and says* Hi my names ...... whats yours. The start of a brand new friendship or maybe a relationship. Whatever is best suited for each other. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 11, 2005 Share Posted January 11, 2005 Just trying to voice a different way of thinking. The way someone dresses, looks, talks, etc. is the obvious answer. Yes, if a guy finds you attractive it will be a turn on. But there are other things to consider. A short skirt and cleavage can attract lots of attention, but is it the right kind of attention? Are the guys you are turning on the kind of guys you want to notice you? If you really want to turn a guy on, touch there heart. If he knows you care about him and understand them, a guy will do anything for a girl. And if you really want something physical, a smile goes along way. Knowing that the girl is enjoying herself will make the guy happy and he'll want to make sure she keeps having a good time. Plus, it just looks really sweet and beautiful. Link to comment
Desired1 Posted January 14, 2005 Author Share Posted January 14, 2005 Hey you guys thanx a lot for responding. I really appreciate you taking time out of your lives to answer my little question. Thanx a lot again. Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted January 14, 2005 Share Posted January 14, 2005 No problem. And do not worry. As you grow older, you will find out what interests us guys. It is alot better discovering alot of these "mysteries" yourself. Link to comment
aries Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 I love a girl who can carry herself well.........adn if she knows how to walk well in a pair of nice heels.....woof woof Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 I hear ya on the heels dude. That's a BIG turn on for me. Link to comment
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