altosinger314 Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 I've been going out with this guy, and he seems great, and during the end of the second date, he bent down to kiss me on the cheek, and yeah, we were a bit strapped for time (this was at a track meet and he suffered from shin splints and he couldn't feel his heel anymore and had to go catch his bus to rejoin his teammates). But does that mean that he only likes me as a friend? I hope he doesn't, 'cause he's the one that always asks me to go to his track meets. Link to comment
-Perplexed- Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Maybe he is a bit shy? You could try asking him out to a movie or next time he tries to hug u / kiss you on the cheek you could always give him a kiss on the lips and see how he reacts... Just my $.02 Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Maybe he is shy, doesn't like to rush things, or is unsure of how far you'd like to go. There could be a number of explanations. Don't jump to conclusions or think he doesn't like you. Keep hanging out and see how he acts. He may end up kissing you on the lips next time. If it seems like he likes you but is afraid to kiss you, why not make the first move yourself? Link to comment
altosinger314 Posted January 4, 2005 Author Share Posted January 4, 2005 Aww, thanks, you guys! I've once had a friend tell me that I tend to let things sit around and then swim in my head, and they manifest into monsters of the mind...haha. Yeah, i overreact...a lot. Thank you, you have no idea how much this calms me down! Link to comment
shuntaro603 Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 maybe he was just being polite, that doesn't mean he doesn't like u. He may end up kissing you on the lips next time. If it seems like he likes you but is afraid to kiss you, why not make the first move yourself? i agree Link to comment
justagirl20f Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 My BF didn't kiss me the first date, kissed me on the cheek the second date, and then at the END of the third date kissed me on the lips... And even that was only cuz we wagered a bet on a game of mini-golf... Suffice it to say, despite his gentlemanly pace, he DOES like me and he has opened up a hundred fold since then, LOL. You're probably in a similar situation... Don't worry, relish it! If he falls slowly for you, it means he cares what you think about him, and respects boundaries he may have been brought up thinking most good girls have. Good luck! Link to comment
69_king Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 I can't bring myself to kiss a girl until I am certain about her which, with me, usually takes more than 2 dates! I mean, if I decided I didn't really 'click' with her after say 3 or 4 dates then it would be easier to break up with her if we hadn't started kissing and stuff already. If I kissed someone on the cheek at the end of the second date then that is a pretty good sign that I like her! I've read posts on this forum about people who have been going out for months before they kissed, so it's not all that important. Link to comment
altosinger314 Posted January 4, 2005 Author Share Posted January 4, 2005 Merci beaucoup, tout le monde! Thank you so much for all your excellent, excellent advice! I'll try not to worry too much about it anymore, haha. Link to comment
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