vash13 Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Hi! I am concerned about my girlfriend. I have been fingering her and when I do for too long of a time she starts to bleed. Is it because I am fingering too hard? She havig her period? Did I tear something? She is really concerned and hoping I am get some answers out there. Link to comment
trying_to_move_on Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 i think the best thing u can do is eather go to a doctor or a family planning clinic! they will know the cause! better safe than sorry i say! Link to comment
Goddess4ever Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Alright...I know this sounds corny...but before you do that, make sure your fingernails are trimmed and your hands are clean. If you nicked her...she could get an infection from the bacteria on your hands. Please make sure she is turned on enough (lubricated) before putting your fingers in. Link to comment
ReadyorNot Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Man I am feeling nausious now....My body just got all weak... Im guessing you nicked her... sometimes guys can be really rough and think its better but its not.. I also agree that you need ot make sure your nails are trimmed and clean and then be more gentle with her until she tells you to do it harder or rougher... Link to comment
shuntaro603 Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 i think u should be more gentle and more careful next time. Link to comment
OceanEyes Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Some girls are too shy/ bashful to just come out and say two simple words: THAT HURTS! You're definitely going to hard and rough. It's not normal for bleeding to occur from fingering unless she's on her period or you're going to hard. Trust me, being gentle down there with your fingers is much more pleasurable than hammering away porn-style. Link to comment
Tinkerbell Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 OceanEyes makes a good point, perhaps your girlfriend didn't want to point out that you were hurting her for fear that it would cause you an immense drop in confidence level. Next time (before you begin fingering her), say something along the lines of "I want you to tell me what you like; if I'm going too hard or too soft please let me know." Suggest the two of you invest in a lubricant, or rather try to turn her on more BEFORE you go there so some of her natural lubricants have time to kick in. And of course, the obvious, ask her whether or not it's her time of month. Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 it seems like most girls (ones ive been with anyways) would prefer you rub her clit more then finger her anyways. hate to be graphic but couldnt think of another word for it. Link to comment
vash13 Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 I do ask her and she says it's good... and she does tell me when it hurts or not. We have good communication and when it starts to hurt I do stop. I'm just wondering if it's really serious or not. I cannot rub her clit cause it's too sensitive and it tickles for her hehe.. Link to comment
Goddess4ever Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Okay...not to be graphic or gross...but the reason that it is too sensitive...is probably because you are touching her clitoris too directly. Try rubbing her on top of the clitoral hood, and not the clit directly....that should clear the problem up too. Also...just ask for some direction for what feels good. Link to comment
vash13 Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 Even by chance she is not having her period.. what else could it be? please give me ANY suggestions. Link to comment
incredble Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Even by chance she is not having her period.. what else could it be? please give me ANY suggestions. i guess the other thing would be you cut her... Link to comment
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