Would it be weird to message him?

[Amp33]

There's a guy that did my tattoo a couple of weeks ago, and I thought he was attractive and also enjoyed his personality from what I could tell while I was there!

Earlier today on Facebook he appeared in the "people you might know" section and I've been contemplating whether or not I should message him and ask if he would like to hangout sometime. I don't want to appear like I Facebook stalked him or anything though.

As well, I heard noise that sometime within the last few weeks he's broken up with a long term girlfriend. So I don't wan to jump the gun if he's not really interested.. What should I do??

[Flyer79]

Go for it, you only live once and tell us how you go!

[PeopleOfTheSun]

Yes go for it! You only live once. Show us your tattoo!

[lymphocyte]

One of two things will happen:

 

It will work.

 

Or it won't.

 

You'll only know if you try.

[SooSad33]

Nothing wrong with the FB invite.. BUT if he's just going thru a LTR break up- that's NOT so good.

He's most likely vulnerable right now and emotionally/mentally unstable.

 

If you do try to go further at this point, good chance you'd be his 'rebound'. Those aren't nice.

 

I'd stay away from that for at least 3-6 mos. He'll need some serious down time on his own.