bostonsfinest2 Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 My ex wrote me this "Hello Kevin. Hope school, work and family are doing good. I was asked about hockey tickets for a game tonight. Lmk if you would like them." Today is our anniversary do you think I should answer? Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 She has now resorted to bribery. Still pulling your strings....don't respond. Link to comment
MisUnderstood9 Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Ya I wouldnt respond. Sounds like she is finding an excuse to contact you Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted March 14, 2014 Author Share Posted March 14, 2014 I'm just wondering if she is asking me on like a date. Link to comment
MisUnderstood9 Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 who knows. She could be offering u the tickets because she cant use them could be an excuse to get u to hang out with her it could an excuse to just see u to drop off the tickets... its just best to not answer Link to comment
GinNJuice Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Ask her if she wants to go on a date. Link to comment
patterned Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 She's not asking you on a date. She's asking you if you want the tickets. It doesn't really matter what she's attempting to do. Don't try and understand. Don't play games. Take it, and everything at face value. If she was asking you out you wouldn't have to come here to ask us. Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 I'm just wondering if she is asking me on like a date. Let me know if you could use them....not a date request. That would be....let me know of you want to go with me. She is trying to get you to respond like a good little puppy. She is bribing you with treats. If you respond....you will.just get your nose smacked again. Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted March 14, 2014 Author Share Posted March 14, 2014 It's just my fault the relationship fell apart.I think she doesn't think I care any more and us hesitant to get turned down Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 You were dishonest...owned up to it and she says she can forgive you and the changes her mind every few days. Until she accepts that she forgives or moves on you are not obliged to jump every time she snaps her fingers. Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted March 14, 2014 Author Share Posted March 14, 2014 You were dishonest...owned up to it and she says she can forgive you and the changes her mind every few days. Until she accepts that she forgives or moves on you are not obliged to jump every time she snaps her fingers. I feel like the only way she can forgive me is if I prove I've been improving in aspects to honesty.God am I confused look Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 That is BS. You cannot prove anything. You owned up to it and she either here over it or doesn't and she has been jerking you around. If you want her to treat you with respect instead of a lap dog...stand your ground. BTW...you don't have an anniversary. She broke up with you. The relationship is over. This is just her.playing mind games with you. Link to comment
somegoodman Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 I feel like the only way she can forgive me is if I prove I've been improving in aspects to honesty.God am I confused look Don't fall into this trap. Nothing is your fault, she's just managed to manipulate you into feeling guilt and shame over the end of the relationship. Disown and ignore. Link to comment
bison67 Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Tough one man... I would have probably been a sucker and responded, yet im not in the state to think logically quite yet. I guess the logical thing to do is ignore it. Boy do these situations suck.... Link to comment
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